Mini Motivation #2 - Gratitude is the best attitude

in psychology •  7 years ago 

Ever bitched to someone about your life, and have them respond to you,

"Count your blessings."

I did, several times actually, and I am grateful for those humbling experiences.

Yes, as humans, we will complain - lack of money, lack of love, lack of satisfaction, you name it. My Master used to tell me,

"Unsatisfactoriness is the nature of life."

And true, because of our constant unsatisfactoriness we will seek new methods to replace the old, new experiences to replace the mundane, new stories to replace the mediocre. Some would argue that then, being unsatisfied with circumstances is actually a good thing. It would propel growth.

But you and I know it's not what we're talking about, right?

It's that nagging feeling that you're not good enough, and you beat yourself up for it. You would compare yourself with others and say you're no good. You would benchmark yourself against unrealistic expectations, in the false sense that it will motivate you, but the truth is, those expectations are eating into you, making you doubt yourself, pushing others away as they try to comfort you.

So while it's good to be unsatisfied and channel that into energy for growth, it's also good to self-reflect on those unsatisfactoriness, and ask yourself,

"What do I have right now that I can be grateful for?"

Mini Motivation is my own daily strategy to inspire myself. Mostly 3 minute reads.

From Motivation, we gain Inspiration. From Inspiration, we achieve Momentum. And the rest, they say, is history.

Hope it helps nudge you a bit too in the right direction.

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This Is Very Encouraging And Educative..............I Just Had To Upvote This............Pls Keep Up The Good Work

Thanks @desmond816! All the best to you too!

Well said bro... Gratitude is the best attitude, some folks do not know that life is precious, that one is alive means alot, when there is life, there is hope

I hope more people can key into this, cause alot are lacking in this!

Thanks @charles92. Great to know that you agree that gratitude is the way to go too. I think it's a trait often forgotten.

this is really a great post .. my permission to follow you ..! because I sure can take me further ... thanks @maverickfoo.!

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Nice thought for the day.

It's that nagging feeling that you're not good enough, and you beat yourself up for it.

I'm still doing this to myself, and when it gets out of control it's really more 'harmful' than 'beneficial'. Gratitude is the foundation of happiness, so it is wonderful to take a step back once in a while and be grateful for how far we've come, and how much closer we are to accomplish the big picture in mind.

What I am grateful for?

That I learn how earn fake money and withdraw real money!!! :D

Gratitude brings about a more open mindset to the world thus allowing people to make more better decisions! Great Post! :)

A great Monday Motivation indeed, and yes, stay awesome everyone!

We should always be grateful of what we have, appreciates what's in hand instead of looking at others. Great motivation!