No matter what way, time, or situation the cold violence is, without exception, it is evasive.
But the focus of avoidance is different: some are to avoid problems, some are to avoid feelings, some are to avoid trouble, and some are people.
To put it more bluntly: Anyone who is good at using cold violence to face problems in a relationship is cowardly.
Don't think he has a bigger temper than anyone else, he is tall and strong, and no one can stop his impulse-but as long as he faces problems, he is reflexively cold and violent. He is extremely cowardly in his bones.
It’s not a generalization that their cowardice is deliberate. Many people are actually "passive, cold and violent." They instinctively use avoidance to face the immediate troubles. They don’t want this either. However, their EQ is too low and they are too afraid of trouble. No sense of responsibility. For this kind of cold and violent people, it can actually be improved through benign communication and communication.
But the cold violence of some people is taking the initiative. He uses the effects of cold violence to achieve some of his own evil goals. For this kind of people, it is recommended to consider carefully, after all, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep.
Next time, we will show you several types of cold violence.