Look, for years we men have been taught that women are hard to understand. In the same way, the vast majority of us have found ourselves in complicated situations with a woman, in which we barely understand anything.
To what extent is this true? What is objectively certain, at least, is that there are significant differences between men and women, not only on a physical level, but also on a psychological and cultural level.
But even if these differences exist, it does not mean that it is impossible to understand the opposite sex.
In fact, it is much easier than what we have been taught throughout our lives, only our own beliefs have made us consider that it is difficult.
In order for a man to understand the women close to him, the first step he must take is to make contact with his own emotions.
Men are used to staying away from emotions, because we don't usually have anyone to listen to them, understand them or protect them. So when someone significant comes into our life, we tend to shut down emotionally to protect ourselves.
This is the main problem, since if we do not have contact with our own emotions, it is an impossible task to understand the emotions of others.
I know very well that it is easier said than done, but if you take time to get to know yourself and your emotions, you will realize that women are not at all difficult to understand, and you will improve your interpersonal relationships, your level of success and even your own happiness.
If you're interested in more posts about emotional intelligence, let me know in the comments. I think I'll make a post geared towards women, since they also have trouble understanding men, even if it doesn't seem like it.
Good luck. Silvspell out