Esse post trata de uma questão filosófica bastante interessante, que é basicamente o nosso interesse pela realidade nua e crua, assim como ela se apresenta para nós.
Se formos olhar atentamente para o mundo ao nosso redor, é fácil perceber o quanto o ser humano precisa do lúdico para viver. Todo mundo está cansado de saber o quanto a realidade é triste, quanta violência, mortes guerras, doenças. No entanto, abrimos as redes sociais e lá praticamente só encontramos sorrisos, belas viagens, festas felizes e famílias Doriana perfeitas.
Mas sabemos que isso é só uma cortina de fumaça que esconde a realidade subjacente. E que mesmo assim propositadamente fazemos questão de só mostrar o nosso lado da vida “perfeita”, quase sempre movidos pela vaidade e o orgulho.
Como ninguém gosta de se aproximar de “pessoas problemas”, essa é uma reação natural nossa derivada do nosso instinto de socializar. Somos seres altamente sociais, e quase tudo o que fazemos não é para nós, mas para nos exibir para outros. Nos apresentar para o mundo como poderosos, bem-sucedidos, saudáveis e alegres.
Isso explica em partes essa nossa propensão a esconder a realidade, fingir que ela não existe. Mas será que é só por isso? Penso que não. Acho que a Teoria da Evolução tem um papel na explicação disso. Imagina o que acontece com as pessoas que são 100% neutras em relação à realidade, ou seja, que se entristecem com o que veem de ruim com a mesma intensidade com que se alegram com o que veem de bom. O que vocês acham que aconteceria com essa pessoa? Ela seria mais triste ou mais feliz?
Não sei vocês, mas pra mim é claro que a grande maioria das pessoas têm uma vida muito difícil e sofrida, e se elas fossem 100% estoicas e realistas, elas entrariam facilmente em depressão e perderiam até a vontade de viver. Então a Teoria da Evolução nos explica que aqueles que tinham uma atitude negativa desanimada perante a vida tinham menos chances de passar seus genes adiante. Talvez por isso que hoje em dia temos essa tendência tão forte em ser otimistas, mesmo com uma realidade que se revela brutal a cada instante. É aquela velha história: “a vida curte com quem não curte ela”.
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Thats right (a vida é uma festa)
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Sim a vida é uma festa que ou você dança ou dança.
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Ser negativo ou pessimista não atrai coisas boas, eu quero sempre estar de bem com a vida então me afasto do negativismo. Mesmo que a realidade seja essa ser positivo nos trás uma coisa chamada esperança e nos leva a procurar e lutar para que o hoje e o futuro seja melhor.
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Sim, a esperança de tempos melhores é o motor de muita gente na vida. Sem ela perderia o ânimo pra viver.
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Se não me engano foi no livro O mentalista que eu li algo que dizia mais ou menos assim: "O mundo é da maneira como você enxerga" ou seja, por mais difícil que a vida esteja, todos os problemas que aparecem, temos de enxergar as coisas boas e seguir em frente mostrando esse lado "bom" positivo. Talvez isso influencie quem nos vê e queira para ele também isso... Como você diz.. se todos fossem realista com as cosias... Estaríamos bem tristes ou mortos.
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Sim, uma das maiores lições da vida é justamente conseguir tirar coisas boas de acontecimentos ruins.
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Boa tarde. Isso mesmo man. O que nos deixa felizes, tristes, chateados, etc... não é o fato em si, mas a forma como interpretamos esse fato!! Claramente os vieses que trazemos de nossa infância e adolescência fazem com que criemos esquemas de interpretação de mundo e trabalhremos á partir deles. O "esquema"(forma de lidar com o mundo) de uma pessoa depressiva é diferente de uma pessoa sem depressão. Por exemplo, duas pessoas estão andando na rua e começa á chover. A pessoa depressiva pensa: poxa, isso só acontece comigo, que vida horrível. Uma pessoa sem depressão pode pensar: Que bom, está chovendo, o clima dará uma amenizada.....
Voltando á questão da persona. A grande maioria de nós possui uma persona para lidar com o público. Ninguém é na sociedade o que é dentro de casa, onde a personalidade da pessoa pode aflorar sem julgamento alheio. Alguém que seja introvertido, goste de silêncio, pode ser obrigado á falar muito e á participar de muitas reuniões caso esteja trabalhando em uma empresa privada ligada á algum setor de comunicação ou marketing, por exemplo!!!!!
O problema da criação dessa persona é quando ela torna-se muito distante de quem a pessoa é, fazendo com que essa possa desenvolver alguns sintomas de ansiedade e depressão por não estar condizente consigo própria,ou seja, não estaria em sintonia com seu eu!!!!!
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Você tocou num ponto interessante. Realmente o autoconhecimento e a autoestima quando ausentes quase sempre levam a um estado depressivo.
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Tem uma música gravada pela cantora Marina Lima que diz: felicidade não existe, o que existe são momentos felizes. Valeu! Sucesso e boa sorte mais uma vez!!
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É isso mesmo. Felicidade e tristeza são sentimentos relativos e não absolutos. Então o que existe são momentos comparativamente mais felises e momentos comparativamente mais tristes.
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"A vida é um parque de diversões no qual metade dos carrosséis não funciona e a outra metade produz emoções muito menos intensas do que se esperava." -- Woody Allen
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Muito interessante essa experiência. Mostra que o que consideramos como pessimismo é apenas a mera constatação imparcial da realidade. Aos olhos de um otimista, o realista se torna um pessimista.
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