So, here is a question for you.
You are bumbling along minding your own business when,
WHAM!
Right Between the EYES!
Something out of the blue hits you from left field and things just ain't going your way because it's being one of those days.
No you didn't get physically attacked, you would, of course, repel that with the most force you could generate.
This is simply something that didn't go according to your plan.
What is your immediate emotional response?
Mad?
Sad?
or Glad?
Did you remain calm long enough to make a rational choice?
Which one did you chose?