What could she have done differently?

Sincerely, absolutely nothing.

Was it a crime for her to enjoy rape sex like that?

We may argue it till thy kingdom come. But I think this is where the woman is to be blame. Haba, even me would've been so ashamed of my wife (I forbid o)

Was the husband being fair to her?

Poor him. He was too shocked to see her wife that way.

Was divorce the only way out?

Divorce isn't the only solution to every marital problems. Although it is so unbearable for the both of them.

What would have been your reaction as a man?

I wouldn't lie. I would've done worse than the husband. That's human nature.

What would you have done as a lady?

Sorry, I'm not a lady.