Learn to accept reality and you will be happy

in reality •  4 years ago 

In real life, there are always many people like this: when they encounter setbacks and difficulties, they will be full of complaints and complain about the injustice of fate.

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When they feel disappointed, they will be sad every day, unable to eat, unable to sleep; facing the rumors and rumors around them, they often feel depressed and secretly sulking.

But have they ever thought that negativity and complaints can solve the current problem? Will a whole day of depression and unhappiness make the lover who abandoned you change his mind? Can grievance and anger satisfy everyone?

The answer is undoubtedly no. In the end it will only make you angry and waste a lot of time.

Life is short, don't try to make everyone like you, and don't always indulge in the past. Now that it has happened, don't indulge in the past and complain.

In this turbulent world, not all wishes can be realized. On the contrary, it is usually unsatisfactory. If there is a little frustration and you are sad, then there will be no fun in life.

Facing a complicated world, be tolerant and calm, don't be melancholy and angry because of other people's doubts, and don't endlessly toss and seek feelings. Time is running around, time is limited, try to live comfortably and happily every second.

Some people, because it doesn't matter to you, don't be frustrated with what they say. It is often said that there are a thousand Hamlet in the eyes of a thousand people.

Each of us has no ability to change others, but we can be sure of our own attitude. No matter when and where, don't be angry for the unworthy, don't insomnia for the unworthy, and become a calm and smart person.

For a person, there must be a lot of helplessness. Instead of wasting time and feelings to complain and entangle, it is better to learn to be simple and to be indifferent to everything.

For the rest of your life, I hope you will no longer be entangled and be more peaceful; have less trouble and be more relaxed.

No matter what you encounter in your life, keep a normal heart, eat enough, sleep well, don't be angry with those who are not worthy, and don't fall asleep because of things that are not worthwhile. Wishful thinking is too difficult, I hope you will always be yourself.

The adult world has always been stressful. Life is everyone's life. If you can't bear it, you will be out, and if you can bear it, you will perform well.

Maybe everyone will feel inexplicably confused when they encounter setbacks, and inexplicably lost when they face things incapable of doing anything. The unsatisfactory things in life are almost inevitable, and the ups and downs are inevitable.

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After all, a person's life must go through a long period of decades. During this period, one will definitely encounter some unpleasant situations

Nevertheless, we can also choose, since we cannot avoid it, try to learn to adapt to it.

Let us be the heroes of life, not the cowards of life.

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