The most thorough understanding of life, just one word!

in realize •  2 years ago 

The most thorough understanding of life is just one word - understand! In this life, being understood by others is luck; being understood by others is happiness.

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Knowing how to respect others is a natural expression of an involuntary noble personality. People who know how to respect always make people comfortable and warm, like smelling faint orchids, like seeing green mountains in spring.

Know how to respect the privacy of friends, do not ridicule, do not spread. Know how to respect the care of loved ones, do not get bored, do not escape.

Know how to respect children's thoughts, don't be strong, don't fight. Know how to respect the labor of others, even family members should express their gratitude.

Know how to respect the choices of others. Everyone is an independent individual, and we have no right to interfere. Know how to respect other people's habits, and have different preferences, so that there are individual differences.

Know how to respect different values, right and wrong can't cover the world, don't comment, understand more. Knowing how to respect others is to respect yourself, and those who do not respect others will never be respected.

Respect is not politeness, etiquette, nor hypocrisy. Knowing that respect is a warm distance, there is no harm, only moving.

Understand that respect is a kind of equality, neither looking down nor looking up, neither humble nor arrogant. Knowing respect is a kind of self-cultivation, being intellectual and elegant, sublimating the charm of personality, and swaying great love silently.

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Concession, not cowardice, but an amiable character! Concession is not retreat, but the principle of dealing with people!

There is no end to the disputes in the world, and the fight wins the lonely family; there is no end to the matter of love, and if you know how to make concessions, you will win the hearts of the people!

Between friends, if you know how to make concessions: you won't lose trust because of interests; you won't go your separate ways because of conflicts.

Just because we understand each other, friends hold hands tighter and tighter!

Between relatives, if you know how to make concessions: you will not contradict your parents, you will follow along; your siblings will not be indifferent, but will show love.

The love of blood is thicker than water, root to root, heart to heart forever!

Between relationships, if you know how to make concessions: see through a person's mind because you know too much;

No matter what kind of feelings: because you know how to make concessions, you are compassionate; because you know how to make concessions, you are tolerant; because you know how to make concessions, you gain feelings.

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In the arena of life, if you want to get something, you must first give something.

It is a pity that many people say shamelessly before the stove of life, "Stove, give me some heat, and I will give you more wood."

The farmer made a wish in the field: "Buddha, if you give me a grain of grain this year, I promise to sow seeds next year and work hard."

But the Buddha did not follow such laws. Only one grain of millet planted in spring can harvest ten thousand seeds in autumn.

The farmer will only have a good harvest in the fall if he sows the seeds in the spring; hard work must be done before the crops are good.

If you want what life has to offer you, first you have to give.

If you follow this rule firmly for the rest of your life, many problems will be solved.

When you give, the world will tell you that you will get what you pay for, and you will get more. If we never forget, there must be echoes, and all our efforts are meaningful.

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