Dedicated to the women in my life, if you're in it, you're special.
When I sit here and write this I am not sure where I should start.
I am Muslim, I am Salafi, I am also red pill... it all seems like a contradiction.
Like many men from the west I have a relationship stories which would make the average man's skin pucker up in goose bumps of anger, empathy and a host of other male emotions that can only be described as red pill rage.
In going through several painful relationships and break ups I started to wonder what was wrong with me.. of course I did the most logical thing a man in pain and sorrow could do... I consulted Google... and Google, in true bro code form, delivered.
I came across red pill and it changed my life, and it changed it for the better.
I wont list the sites and the books, the YouTube channels and men I met along this path to rapid change but I will say to you all.. Thank you, and may Allah guide you, it is the highest form of thank you I feel a man can offer you... the wish for you to find and have divine guidance.
Two movements that fall under the subgroup of red pill stuck with me the most. MGTOW (men going their own way) and PUA (Pick up artists).
Both PUA and MGTOW focus on the basic core of women, their true nature and how to deal with it, but the two end in similarity at this point of intersection (no feminist pun intended.)
MGTOW focuses on the negative nature of women when their hypergamy is given free reign and avoiding women and relationships in the gynocentric west.
I like to refer back to MGTOW men because they seem to have a keen insight that other men lack, maybe due to their ability to detach themselves from women and that energy spent is then poured into the passion of study. MGTOW is often mocked but to do so is foolish... a great deal of these men are intellectually superior to the average man who is simply wandering through life, following a script written for them that is to the benefit of others, not themselves.
MGTOW men live for themselves and it is truly a freedom few enjoy.
Nevertheless it is not the lifestyle for me.. I am too pragmatic about the reality of the biology that Allah created me with to think that I am going to go through my life without women and relationships with them. I think even MGTOW men passively realize this as they expend a significant degree of their time and energy researching women and their nature and how gynocentric western society benefits them.
The second group is PUA, and these men focus on the nature of women and how to manipulate it to their own benefit (sexual access).
PUA is an art of its own teaching men how to bed women who are considered out of your league. Without PUA men I wouldn't know what a congruence test is and how to withstand it. What a bitch shield is and why women throw up shade when you approach them or speak to them with a personal interest. Most of all I wouldn't have understood how to withstand them and when to cut your losses with a woman that is so broken that the only thing she knows is how to congruence test.
BUT, like MGTOW I didn't see PUA as a lifestyle that I could emulate despite studying it. As a Muslim, the use of PUA tactics are for the most part amoral. One night stands, pump and dumps etc are not the way of Muslims and Islam. We do have polygamy but this comes with responsibility for the women you choose in the fullest sense.
PUA taught me how to be desirable to a woman based off of your natural attributes you have within yourself and using those to break her mental frame and impose yours on top of it.. PUA taught me that women love dominance.. and they love it a lot. This flew in the face of all that I learned about women my entire life but every time I learned something new it worked, despite how reprehensibly misogynistic, sexist and 'creepy' we as men were told these behaviors were.
PUA pulled back the curtain on the contradictions that women tell you, wanting a nice guy and never dating one, rather dating a bad boy instead... and this as a consistent behavior.
BUT, as I said... for a Muslim, even a Muslim who isn't really practicing, PUA is like the black death to the soul.
I became a hybrid of my own and a man that unabashedly and openly has more than one woman in his life. As it currently stands things are going well, almost too well... its actually kind of scary and surreal at the same time but it is my life, and I wont change it for anything but the better and for my own benefit first.
I want to tell you men who have been injured and have come to the red pill.. Red Pill rage feels good because of the energy it provides you to keep going and to focus, but it is highly unsustainable. Use it to find your base and who you should be but you have to let it go.. I am not saying you need to enter a relationship, but I am telling you that if you benefit from the takeaways that red pill has to offer, it is ok to love women.
ON LOVING WOMEN
If you venture back into the pool you have to remember the nature of the shark... you cannot afford to lose another limb and to be honest, you'd be a fool to do so. You never learned if you are that man and that fool.
Many men come to red pill, learn the nature of women, take advantage of this new found knowledge only to fall back into being the same idiot schlub he was before he came to what he learned. If this man is you, then know it is never ok to love a woman for you... Your idea of love is oppressive and is based on an ideal of what a woman is supposed to be, an ideal she doesn't want to live up to.
Love women, but love them based on what they are in reality and not what you want them to be.. your approach to them will be different and they will notice it if it truly becomes a part of who you are. It is freeing to both you, and to them and it leads to the desire from women that you seek.
TO THE WOMEN IN MY LIFE
I will not gush my undying dedication to you like man uninitiated men do thinking it will lead to you loving and appreciating me more.
If you have made it this far in my life for me to call you a woman in my life, then you know that I am a man who will die with a love for you and WOMEN in general.
If you are in my life, it means you stood out above the crowds of women I had the choice of by way of my new found abilities to seduce them.
I overlooked others and chose you despite others being younger, prettier, richer or desired after... there is a reason for that... and all of my research, my time and efforts in understanding your madness as a gender brought me to the conclusion that there is actually levels and differences to women that are stark and magnificent making many women today undeserving and unworthy of the dedication and loyalty that many men, myself included wish to impart upon a partner.
This is the only compliment I can offer, and if you have lasted this long in my life then you understand the significance of this statement.. something the lesser women I spoke of will never understand in their solipsistic need for affirmation from a man... you see what they want and understand it... you have done what I advised men to do... to love men (me) for what I am, and not the ideal that you think a man should be.
I cannot offer you exclusivity, nor the world and the sun and the moon, none of which are mine to give... Exclusivity is negated by my biology, and the heavens and the earth and all that are in it belong to my lord who is Allah.
None the less you have me as I am and in loving me as I am and for what and who I am you have taught me something red pill... which it is ok to love a woman..
AA