BOOM

You are waiting for a BOOM to change your life. A point of break, of inflection. Something that will get you out of the routine.

You long for it.

You need it.

You imagine it falling from the sky.

The books we have read have convinced us of that. The life of the characters change completely when a letter arrives, a person, a magical being, a move, a new year. Whatever is.

Sorry, but I must tell you: that does not happen.

Changes are processes. Life changes through processes.

Those "BOOM" only happen to few people. Those who, in some way, have begun to change, have been allowed to do so. They have begun to accept new things and to let go of the old. Of what does not work, of what painfully stalls us and it is hard for us to let go.

No need to wait for a Monday, a first of January, a full moon to begin. It's enough that you get fed up and decide you're done. And that you propose and commit to change the way you flow.

So yes, when you open yourself to change, when you force yourself to change your attitude, you have more chances to allow yourself to accept new and better things in your life. You would even begin to distinguish the occasional small boom. Until you create them yourself!

Otherwise, BOOMs would only be missed opportunities.