Women are to blame?

Recently passed a string of scandals with rapes. Okay, there, with Harvey Weinstein everything is clear - really an asshole. But I wonder why all this surfaced just now.
And a wave of revelations has begun. We drove to Kevin Spacey in the best traditions of the series House of Cards, remembered another couple of actors that 40 years ago someone winked at someone and hinted. And immediately deprivation of all prizes and titles. I'm wondering, even if everything is true, where do the rewards for acting, or where the producer's work, and accusations of harassment. Why do such things emerge only after 20-40 years, why do some cases show evidence, and in others they believe in the word, and why do people are accused of the same people in different ways: they are persecuted all their lives, others put a bolt (cases with Roman Polanski and Woody Allen, accusations similar, the consequences are different). In general, it is disgusting to read about how the struggle for the rights of victims turns into a farce and a way to destroy someone's career.
And most importantly, we have a lot of cockroaches in our heads, we first need to sort them out before blaming the entire white light for our failures. But why take responsibility for your choice or actions, if it's easier to blame men for everything? A good man should do the most!