Regretful Mothers

in regretful •  6 years ago 

For some, the idea of ​​bringing a child into a world they never wanted or could not raise is completely unbearable. The Israeli Sociologist Orna Donath, in 2015, was named Regretful Mothers in 2015, and some mothers let us see what fires were burning inside them. Most of the time, even the desire to have a child is not welcomed by families. Everyone believes the mother can do it again when she becomes a mother.

The reason why women have negative feelings about having children is not yet sufficiently studied and proven. The sense of motherhood is not to be explained as 'love, which goes on to the end, no matter what.' Emotional calculations include parameters such as reviewing both parents' and child's needs. We always think that the mother wants the best for her child no matter what, and can ignore what she wants. What we can't see is that the basis of ensuring the happiness and well-being of a child is actually making the mother completely well and happy. There is a reason why we are wearing the oxygen mask to the mother first, not only in emergency situations, but always have to adopt this rule.

For the sake of the mother and the baby, we need to distinguish between the facts and beliefs. It is very cruel to expect mothers to be the best mothers and to remain alone, without the emotional and economic support of their mothers and compelled to love their children. There is no rule that every woman will be a happy mother.

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