Yes. Why do people go into relationships
Everyone has different reasons for going into relationships and below are some reasons why I feel people enter relationships.
Some people go into relationships just for the fun of it, some go into relationships because they won't get laid except they are seeing someone. Others get into relationships because of monetary gains.
While some get into relationships because of the genuine love they have for their supposed spouses, others get into it for the sake of the fun and enjoyment they stand to gain from it.
Before one gets into relationships, they are some questions one needs to ask oneself.
Questions like "how much do I love whoever Is going to be my partner?"
"What do have to offer into the relationship? What do I stand to gain from it?"
"How well do I know whoever's going to be my partner?"
We have heard and /or seen cases where people jump into relationships not because they actually love their partners but because they were either coerced or adviced into dating whoever they are dating because it would supposedly work to their advantage.
Life's all about loses and wins, give and take , same ought to apply in relationships. What are you offering your partner in the relationship, Is it just sex? What comes after that?
True love should not be based on only sex. There should be more than that. You both should help each other and encourage each other to grow, be it financial growth, social or even spiritual.
In this our generation where true love is hard to find,if you really want to find true love you have to look within yourself. Self acceptance is the first step to loving yourself.
If you can't accept yourself and love yourself then it'll be hard to truly love anyone else.
Remember that you can't give what you don't have, and while you're loving others don't forget to love yourself more.
Cheerios 😊
