3 Techniques To Fix a Boring Relationship!

in relationship •  7 years ago 

Life can be so boring at times, especially when you are in a relationship since you can't even flirt a girl outside or else it would be considered cheating on your wife. You've done love marriage and now you're fighting with each other all the time, WTF?!

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Calm down! You're not alone. Actually, your situation might not be as bad as others. At least you guys have done a love marriage and that means both of you like each other (or maybe you're not one of those?). Life becomes boring when we busy ourselves at work as such that we fail to give time to each other.

Sometimes, life can be boring because of no kids as you believe that you're not ready for them. Having children feels amazing, though it adds the responsibility on your shoulders. As soon as you guys believe that you're ready, then don't delay it more. But if you have kids and your life is still boring, then I've prepared this article especially for you. We'll discuss the ways to fix a boring relationship in this article.

# 1 - Date your wife:

No matter how busy you are, it is important to spare time for your wife. Almost every company offers lunch break of around 30 minutes to workers and if the restaurant is not that far, you can date your wife at a nearby restaurant (assuming that she is just a housewife).

But it can be difficult if both of you are working in different companies and your lunch break timing might vary. In this case, it's a good idea to spare as much time as possible during breakfast and spend half of it with your kids and half of it with your wife and nothing should distract you from that. Then gradually, you can date your wife at dinner, maybe once in a week.

# 2 - Talk over text messages:

So, you're at work and your wife is alone at home. How about using your mobile phone and texting her some lovely messages to make her feel like you really miss her. Doing this will make sure that when you reach home, your wife will welcome you with a smile on her face and with a lovely hug.

Viola! This is all that you need, a welcome hug from your wife because that may be enough to turn both you on for having a good sex session ;)

# 3 - Take care of the needs of each other:

This is really important. When you bind yourself in the marriage relationship, you promise to each other to take care of the needs and support in every situation. Your wife may need something specific from you and you are probably not giving her what she needs?

Practicing these 3 methods will not only fix your boring relationship but also increase the affection and love for each other. Don't forget to kiss each other before you go out for office, and well, never cheat on your wife/husband just because he/she is boring. Work on your relationship and everything will be fine. ;)

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Good post sir

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Nice post sir...

Good tips to make stronger & loving relationship, thanks.