… continued… from part 1, part 2 and part 3
A relationship requires some level of trust and understanding. You should never be in a love relationship with someone you don’t trust because even at their best, you will always doubt the sincerity of whatever they have done.
A relationship is not for babies. It is for matured minds and age is never a factor of maturity while being famous doesn’t mean you will be relevant. When you understand what love really means and what a relationship really stands for, then you would understand the sacrifices, the sweat and the commitment that goes into it.
Love is such a beautiful thing that no one can ever deny no matter how it is conceived. I have seen people fall in love in the library, seen people fall in love in the mall, in fact, I have seen some people fall in love in the zoo and on that last one, and the hippopotamus is my witness hahahaha.
Love is sweet, love is kind but love is never without reasoning. You need to shun external influence in your relationship because when you allow outsiders to run your relationship, they are only trying to give you the relationship they have. You should determine how you want your own relationship to be, so never try to pattern it on another.
The boyfriend said he accused her of poisoning the food because his close friend got poisoned by a lady he was also in love with and carried his money away before he could be found and revived. This is why I said that we can never throw away the place of exposures in a relationship. You need to leave your garbage to the door when you enter into a relationship because if everyone starts treating you the way they feel from their own past relationship or on what they have seen or heard, no one would enjoy any kind of relationship. This is why I always advocate that we should go with our heart and with our head. We should never lose our ability to reason when we are in love.
…THE END…
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Hmmm, thanks for the word of wisdom bro. No two relationships are the same. Find out what works in yours and work with it, never compare your relationship with other people's relationships nor your partner with other people's partner.
I feel like seeing the guy now and slap some senses into his head... Can you imagine!
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LMAOOOOOO! I wish I can draw him close and slap sense into his head too. He threw away a perfectly working relationship all because of what he saw from a close friend. It is such a shame because he focused on what wasn't working in other people's relationships and not on what was working in others. What you choose to focus on is what you will be exposed too and experience too.
Thanks for this wonderful contribution.
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Love is like a vessel on high sea ( I don't know how i got this) but what i am trying to say that there are a couple of things that keeps it (Love/vessel) afloat and once these factors are missing or working against the Love or this vessel, rather than sailing in the right course it will either sink or sail the wrong direction. i can't agree less by your analysis. Two basic words you used that are Paramount TRUST n UNDERSTANDING.
thanks for sharing boss.
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Trust and understanding would always keep any relationship afloat as you have wonderfully illustrated. Every relationship would be hit with the waves on the high sea but what you believe in and what you know will stand you in a good place. We need to focus on what we can see and stop assuming based on what we have seen happen for others. You can have your reservations, yes but never allow it to ruin the relationship you are enjoying.
Thanks a lot, brother.
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Yes my friend @olawalium , its trust that we should have on a person to whome we love or we are in relation with. Understanding and maturity is another condition for it as its not a play or game.
Excellent.
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Age is not a function of maturity and in a relationship, as you have said, you need both understanding and maturity. Understanding comes from maturity.
Good comment, my friend.
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