Sunday_Nugget

Stop Abuses

Dear man, she makes blood rush to your fists with her words, take a break before you kill someone.
Dear woman, he beats you up, take a break before he kills you or you kill him
And to the special people, yes the ‘I have been married for 100 years and I overcame’ people. The ones that sit, mostly, women down and tell them triumphant tales of years of collecting slaps, enduring infidelity, embracing seeds spawn in adultery. The ones that say “He only slapped you two hundred times, my own slapped me two
million times” The ones that think they have finally gained the reward of bearing abuse because the no-good old Dauda the sexy guy has retired and is at home because he had a stroke and can finally be faithful to them because it is biologically impossible to be unfaithful. The ones that clean the dribble of liquid food he is allowed to take and change his diapers. The women that have wasted decades of their lives literally pounding their self-worth and confidence into invisible dust. The ones that tell you to chop your ‘slaps’ like a good Christian woman and pray that he will change or have a stroke. To these women, I despise you the most. You are responsible for the shadows of abused women all over, responsible for the deaths that have occurred because women were praying for their abusers. If you are willing to sacrifice your hearts and bodies loving men that have no regard for you, then silently carry your cross and do not ask young women to do the same.
Just to reiterate, men can be and are abused in relationships too. It may not be physical but it may equally be brutal. Apply same treatment as with a woman, remove him from a situation that can damage him.

Finally, God hates divorce and I hate it too.

Stay_Fulfilled

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Ruth