"Most men will agree with me that dating a virgin can be pretty tiring and frustrating. Virgins make one hunger and thirst. They make a brother starve. I'm writing especially about the first class virgins. Those whose hymen AND thoughts are still pure and intact. They come into one's life with many manuals, the biggest being the Bible. To cope with them, one must 'study to show oneself approved'. Very frustrating."
- Realist?! " What the fuck is wrong with you? Don't you think it's kind of fucked up to post something like this? Are you trying to present this as a fucking fact? You want your daughter to come across this bullshit when her first boyfriend is calling less and trying to get in her pants when she isn't ready? How dare you say that unless you are having sex with a dude they are going to be cheating on you?
There is enough pressure on young females to become sexually active and the few who abstain from it until they are mentally and emotionally ready to handle the responsibilities of having a sexual relationship are far better off statistically in the long run than girls who are lured into abandoning their innocence before their minds have the ability to deal with the strong feelings that are unavoidable once we step over that line.
**You think a few steem dollars are worth such a untasteful and entirely false bunch of information? **
VIRGINS
Please do not let this ignorant stuff influence things that will effect the rest of your life.
- There are guys out there who aren't pathetic and do know how to respect women. They are more than willing to wait for the day when they and their partner are 100% ready for sex. If some douche bag is off humping legs instead of being "lame" chillin with you and not touching his crotch then trust me young ladies - LET HIM GO. Do not give yourself so completely to anyone for the simple fact of keeping their interest. If they are worth it, they will be interested in more than boobies and tra-la-las.
A lot of this article just reads as shaming women into changing themselves so that their boyfriend won't cheat. If one party is cheating, the real problem is with them.
I'm not saying it's wrong for a woman who's being cheated on to look at her own behavior, but it's ridiculous and insulting to suggest that she's more at fault than the unfaithful asshole.
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I dated my high school boyfriend on and off for six years before I met my husband. For the first two years we dated, I was a virgin, and so was he. When we finally "did it," it was MY idea, because I was finally ready, and wanted to do it (of course, he was extremely happy). I never worried about him cheating. Then again, I'm pretty much a "free will" kind of person....if he'd wanted to have sex with someone else, but still be in a relationship with me, that would have been fine. I feel the same way about my husband.
My husband was glad I wasn't a virgin when we got married, because he said virgins were a lot of trouble. But, he also wouldn't have broken up with me if I HAD been one. I don't think the virgin thing is as big a deal as some people make it. One thing is sure, though, and that's NO woman should feel pressured into having sex before she's ready, just to keep a man's interest.
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