The signals are clear and simple: if you invested too much in your partner you will be mad at that person, and if you took too much from him or her, the sign is irritation.
Both of these feelings will grow and aggravate, even if you won’t notice from the start. In a relationship, often we offer something hoping that we will receive the same back. If we don’t receive it, we give our relationship another change and so on. At some point, the respect you have for your partner disappears.
Love becomes destructive, affection starts to fade away and those beautiful moments that you two once had are happening rarely or not at all.
And that’s when you feel incredibly unhappy, that’s when pain appears. You swear to yourself that you’ll never let yourself make the same mistake again, but in a few moments you run back to your partner. It’s sad that most people live with the illusion that there will be a feedback.
Most of the times, there won’t be one and all of the energy you consumed won’t be appreciated.
To love is one thing. To know how to express your love is another. I have to be honest with you, I don't really know how to express my love, I know that and I want to correct this problem.
A lot of relationships will last longer if both partners would know how to express their feelings. Because this thing doesn’t happen, many couples suffer from lack of harmony.
They start having emotional changes, they become more pessimistic and passive. Motivation disappears. And the worst thing is that the ones involved in a relationship like this shut down from their partner, but also outside of the relationship.
It’s hard to create balance in a relationship. Theoretically, everything is clear, but when it comes to putting it in practice, things tend to go crazy. The best advice is to think clearly and decide if you want to continue the relationship. If you have doubts, you will never be determined enough to make positive changes.
I know it sounds like a cliché, but the only way to have harmony and energetical balance in your relationship is to be in harmony with yourself before even getting in a relationship.
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love yourself before loving others i guess.
i think ultimately there needs to be give and take from both parties to make it work~
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Wow this is so true, there's really no perfect relationship anywhere, even love doesnt keep a relationship. Consistency, determination commitment to the relationship does.
I think you need to discover the love language of your partner or anybody. That way, u'll be able to express it. It could be attention, love, gifts, adventure, and so on. As time goes on doing this, you'll know better. Thanks
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proper investment in relation too is important ;)
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Beautiful write up
Normally in a relationship one partner is surely going to invest more than the other but one in which the investment of a partner is much more than the other isn't healthy
I think a good rule of relationship should be loving yourself first before loving any other person to avoid loosing oneself
Understanding and patient is also a great tool in making a relationship to work
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Everyone has his/her own perception about this subject but to me one can manage to make a balance among relationships specifically in love relation.
For this one should give freedom to his/her partner to understand themselves in a more clear way. There should not be any doubts among them and try to share little gifts with eachother. Gifts enhances the bonding among relationships.
Taunt and shouting attitude always leads to create a sense of hatred among two people in this way relationship can be spoiled as you mentioned,
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Too much of everything is bad. When you give too much in a relationship, your partner begins to take u for granted, when you give less than required they feel neglected.
Unfortunately, we don't know when it becomes balanced, we just have to watch the signs and signals just to be sure we are on the right path.
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nice post dear
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nice yourself
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I like it Post
Thanks for sharing partner
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I guess those people that do that (like myself) are to invested in the other person that they forget they also have a life outside of a relationship, with their parents or siblings or even friends. To create balance in my opinion, would be to make sure that other relationships also receive care and attention to the women you are giving it to.
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Love is all about that reciprocation of give and take. If you feel like you giving too much, slow down and talk about it. If you feel like you are draining your partner, do the same.
I feel a lot of relationship issues are compounded and made worse by lack of communication and honesty. If there is a constant dialogue, there is less likely to be built up animosity that has not been acknowledged.
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I don’t know that give and take is how I would describe it. I think too many people think this way and relationships have become more about what personal gain someone has from the other person. It’s become you don’t do anything for me, or you don’t help me , or I don’t gain anything from being with you . Whatever happened to loving someone unconditionally. We love our children even if they don’t clean their room. We love our children even if they don’t do well in school. Why can’t we love our significant others the same way?
And I agree communication and honesty is important ALWAYS.
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GREAT WORK
I have much of these same issues myself..
It does not seem to matter how hard I work on a relationship, it is never reciprocated?
And then I have to think, maybe it's just the local ladies and I should try elsewhere?
Or maybe my expectations are not rational (could also be true)..
I find the following:
a) Relationships are HARD WORK - expect this and there will be few problems
b) We should invest in people that are truely invested in us - but this can change over time
c) Nothing lasts forever - I try to live mostly for the NOW
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