RELATIONSHIP GOALS -BEFORE YOU SAY YES"YOU CAN HAVE A SUCCESSFUL RELATIONSHIP "

One thing about love is loving someone and you realize the person was just playing pranks with you.
One thing about Love is truly finding the person that truly loves you.

I am not a relationship coach but i have seen a lot already. I want to specially tell you this, go to where you are celebrated and not where your feelings is played with. Most girls will always say I want a very sincere man but when he comes, they mess him up.

There are still good relationships, you can still find true love. Finding true love is simply staying real to yourself. Do not hurt the person you are dating, respect the person and do what makes you guys happy.

When there is understanding and trust, you will have a beautiful relationship. The first thing you do when you meet someone is to study the person, understand what he or she likes, get very close to the person, ask questions, infact ask all the questions you need to ask.

Create memories with that person, that's the fun, I see a lot of people saying you cannot find true relationship again but I want to tell you you can find one. There are a lot of people who are enjoying peace in their relationship, this is simply because they understand each other and they have the same goal.

Find your own goal in a relationship and work towards it, you can do it, it is very possible.
It is very possible to keep a relationship that will be a lime light to many people. It is very possible to have a free and amazing relationship. Do not rush to say yes in a relationship, ask yourself what is it that you want in a relationship.

As a man, ask yourself do you have all what it takes to run a relationship.
I had a friend who was in the same department with me, he was a great and amazing man but he stayed away from relationships, to him he said he does not have what it takes to keep a lady .

He said he needed a lot of time to work on himself .
He said as a man, you need to stand firm to be able to run a relationship.

Now let me say this to the guys, if you want to date when you are of age, find a lady that is working even though you are working too. Keeping someone who is not working will at some point make you tired, because you will be paying the bills all alone.

When you are working and the person you are dating is working too, the relationship will be balanced. You will not have to really pay all the bills. I have seen a lot of relationships shatter into pieces because someone was working and the other person was just a parasite. As a lady if you are working, your partner will respect you and you will be happy.

If you are dating someone that is working and you are not working please go and look for a job, you can be better, Just find something that will bring little money to you too so that you can function very well in that relationship.
Do not let anyone make you an option, before you say yes to anybody, please be sure you are ready, do not go and hurt the person.
Do not be the reason why someone is hurting.
Do not be the reason someone has not eaten for days.

Lastly, Learn to respect people's feelings, learn to put yourself in their shoes. That particular thing your lover says he or she doesn't want, Just flee from it. Let peace always dwell in your relationship.
You can actually build a beautiful relationship it is in your hands to do it.
The choice is yours to make.

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