What do I mean by losing from both sides??
That you're engaged to someone doesn't mean you'll both get married "No".
Along the line you may find out that you and your spouse aren't compatible either based on tests or otherwise.
If your partner a female to be precise is someone that spends extravagantly during your courtship, and its not compatible or you are not comfortable with it. Have little discussion with this you would know if your spouse is really the one and little discussion may lead to quarrelling or breakup... And also vice-versa.
My advice is avoid broadcasting anything about relationships on social media.
Examine how far you and your partner has gone and how you are currently fairing with him/her therefore it's left to you to know if you are in the right relationship...
Quote: Not everyone who laugh first laughs better but the last.
Advice: If you don't want to be a victim of relationship trauma or reject you have to rely on the future and not be boastful of the present.