Well the truth is simple.
Theres no master key only guides ,
I Can't Believe How I Would Get Annoyed With Her or She With Me Over an Issue...and then the NEXT 2 or 5 MINUTES We Are TALKING, LAUGHING, PLAYING and RUNNING AROUND THE HOUSE...TOGETHER. And totally forgot the PAST.
It Is Called BONE OF MY BONE AND FLESH OF MY FLESH.
THE MASTER KEY to Having a HAPPY AND SUCCESSFUL MARRIAGE is MARRYING THE RIGHT PERSON.
Once you missed that Key Before Marriage...you can still get it BUT you'll spend MANY DAYS of Both Necessary and Unnecessary PRAYERS, FASTING, WEEPING, TALKING, BEGGING and COUNSELLING to GET IT.
AND IF you are Patient and Persistent...you'll surely get it...but with those GREAT EFFORTS and Ingredients I Mentioned.
WHY?
It is not a Key You Get After Marriage...IT IS A KEY YOU RECEIVE BEFORE MARRIAGE.
You'll Then Spend Your Entire Marital Life LEARNING HOW TO USE IT...
Because EVERY DAY, if you are WISE and THINK WELL, YOU WILL DISCOVER SOMETHING NEW that THAT KEY CAN DO.
Try to MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON
That Same Person Can Still Change and Turn Out to Be the RIGHT PERSON If GOD Performs Some SURGERY on Him or Her for You.
GOD WILL SIMPLY Take Bones and Flesh from Each of You and Put Them On The Other...so you two can have BONE OF EACH OTHER'S BONE and FLESH OF EACH OTHER'S FLESH.
Just that SURGERY is COSTLY and PAINFUL to do and start with. But once done...IT IS ALL JOY.
DO IT...GET IT...STAY HAPPY..