Conflicts and Healthy Relationships

Human beings have a need to be in a relationship, because it is a source of happiness and sometimes sorrow. Oh yes! It’s a combination of both but most importantly it is source of hope. Whenever you need it, a true relationship will always back you up. Along the way there will be lot of conflicts arising within, that’s when people will start to think that it is going the wrong way.

The question is, is it really the wrong way?

People have a tendency to feel that they are longing for
something in their life. That thing they are longing for will always be someone
special. What you are reading now is for the
one who gets that special one and still facing some conflicts in an everyday
basis.

Let’s discuss something that happens to every one of them
but they are not realising it. Think about this, ‘What happens to every one of them when each conflict is settled?’ or ‘What
changes their thoughts about the other person?’

Did you realize what’s happening after each settled
conflict? If no. Then answer this, ‘What
did Thomas Alva Edison used to realize after each failed attempt to create that
source of light?’

He realised that each set back he is facing is getting him
one step closer to getting what he wants.

Similarly each conflict that people face helps them to know
about the things going the wrong way between them. Those conflicts are giving
them an opportunity to make their bond stronger by discovering more things
about each other. They are given a chance to rewrite all wrongs and to lead a
hopeful life with each other.

Conflicts are not the wrong things happening to you. They
are the right things happening to you to help you realize the wrong things.
Make them right and use them strengthen your chain that binds your
relationship.

Conflicts are really important for a healthy relationship.