Being single is depressing

in relationship •  7 years ago 

We view being single as depressing.

if you are single, you are unlovable, you can't have a healthy relationship, you are not handsome enough, you are not pretty enough, you are not submissive enough, fun enough... right?
We view being single as depressing, a disability according to WHO. Like the person isn't where he or she needs to be, like the person hasn't discovered herself yet, like the person isn't humble enough, maybe the person is just hard to love.
Anyways, being single is just a phase. A good complicated, self motivating phase, a phase where you get to understand yourself better. It is a stage that should be celebrated rather than looked down upon.
I hear people say they can't bear to stay alone they have to mingle because they need someone to call them, text them and tell them they love them. They can't bear to see a couple holding hands or just sitting alone because it reminds them of their single life.
Being single is not a disease,it might be that you are at a point in life where you just want to be on your own and don't want to get distracted. Stop worrying about where and how you are going to find Mr and Mrs right..Stop comparing the journey of your life with another and be happy where you are

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