8 Signs to put an END to a friENDship

in relationshipexpert •  6 years ago 

Hello there!

Don't get confused with such a title as I'm not going to propagate any life decision for any but a few precautioned steps and vibe-talks whether to end a friendship or not?

If relationship were a ship, then friendship probably would have been spelt as friendtitanic... But, yes my dear reader, no matter how grand things have been, iceberg appears all of a sudden and your loved one sinks in the sweet pains of oblivion. So, here we begin!

#1- CHECK, RE-CHECK, RE-RECHECK
As we all know, friendship is like a magic potion that we all need at the end of the day. Whether be it a family issue or a tiff with a romantic partner
we all need a friend so badly. So, check the issues that has happened between you, is it worthy to let them go?

#2- CONFRONTING THE ISSUE
A thought like cutting off a friend doesn't fall from the sky obviously, there must be an worthy or rather unworthy issue that has fallen in between. Now, don't just create a hoax with preimagined situations, without even giving the other a chance to confront what has actually happen.

#3- TRY TO PUT AN END TO THE ISSUE AND NOT THE FRIEND
Oftentimes we see that it's our own friends who behave with us rudely or in an unexpected manner. When such things happen, try to dive deep into the situation and see beyond the primary reaction or incident.

#4- MAKE THEM CONSCIOUS OF THEIR GUILT
If you're going to take so vast a decision of your life, take a pause and make the pace slow. Making someone aware of their guilt is also important. So, if you even leave, just let them know that they deserve a thrash.

#5- EFFORTS TO GET YOU BACK
Now that you've done your part of confronting them, just get backseated and watch carefully how much effort are they putting to get you back? Do their apologies sound true to your ear? Don't even think of getting back, with their first attempt.

#6- LISTEN TO YOUR VIBES
The thing that matter most is your own vibes, the innermost feelings that you feel while you're with that person. If a conversation with them, or a small talk or just a presence of them enligtens your day. Then, think about your decision once more!

#7- KEEP AWAY TOXIC PEOPLE
When it comes to friendship, I know it's really tough to keep away your loved people and to find out the thin line where it starts becoming toxic. Observe their behaviour and response to you, if you're getting drained with negativity. RUN!

#8- ADORE YOURSELF
As far the thoery goes, every single individual is of importance in this universe and hence, understand your value and have the guts to move on towards the beautiful world of self-recognition and self-love!


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