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When it comes to choosing a female partner you want to share your life with, there are several attributes you want to look out for before diving into a long term commitment. These attributes cut across the biological, sociocultural, spiritual, and even common sense dimensions
The spiritual dimension is a case for your own spiritual reality, so also is the biological, sociocultural and any other dimension you want to take into account.
However, I'm going to share 4 important attributes that you should look for, from the standpoint of common sense.
The first one is LOYALTY.
Nothing will hit you harder than being with a woman who's disloyal. This is one of the things that can destroy your faith in women forever. And you don't want that to happen.
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When you start dating her, ask very casually and jokingly if she's ever cheated in past relationships. Put her at ease, appear non-judgmental, and get the truth. If she admits that she actually did, RUN! Nevertheless, also consider the circumstances behind the cheating.
The second is POSITIVITY.
You want someone who has a positive outlook on life - someone who values success and prosperity.
Without getting too political, stay far away from anyone who has a problem with money, sense of industry, and individualism. Consciously or subconsciously, she'll kill your ambition = RUN!
Thirdly, you also want someone who is GROWTH-ORIENTED.
If you meet a woman who reads non-fiction books, listens to tapes, and attends seminars, you’re golden. Growth-oriented women are gems.
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If she knows everything about the latest TV shows or top celebrity gossips, but can't tell you any non-fiction books she's read, RUN!
I’d also add PHYSICAL FITNESS. This might sound a bit controversial but it's the truth. Bottom line: Don't settle with or marry a woman who doesn't exercise regularly. No regular exercise = RUN!
To go even farther, I want to add something very important about selecting women.
The single, most important measure of knowing someone is right for you is, HOW MUCH DO YOU ENJOY HER COMPANY?
We'll shift our attention to men, next time.
Have an amazing day!
Previously on #RelationshipFriday:
- https://steemit.com/relationshipfriday/@prettyrose/the-woman-s-perspective-the-axiomatic-truth-the-one
- https://steemit.com/relationshipfriday/@prettyrose/that-one-step-away-from-a-blissful-relationship-what-am-i-doing-wrong
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I couldn't agree less with this article, it's very judgmental and narrow minded, in my opinion. Based on this article, my husband should divorce me, yet we have been happily married for 16 years and still going strong. When it comes to dating and relationships there are many, many nuances and articles like this are very damaging.
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Am happy you lodged in your opinion. What exactly do you disagree with in the article?
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I agree with the first point: loyalty.
On the second point: this would mean that women who are depressed, women who are going through a rough patch, women who are at a low point in their lives, are not worthy of love and are not capable of loving someone or being good to someone. That's a very limited point of view which is extremely exclusive and damaging to a large population of women.
Growth oriented. You define that as someone who reads a lot of non fiction. That is utter nonsense and I hope you know that. I don't read any non fiction books beyond what I read for work yet I am a very well rounded individual who definitely grows every day. I know people who know all about the latest TV shows who are far more broad minded and developed than the people who only read non fiction. Again, this is very judgemental and prejudiced and looks past the fact that people are complex.
Physical activity: I am not really sure why you advise against marrying a woman who doesn't exercise regularly. Are people who don't exercise regularly less loveable than people who hit the gym a few times a week? And what if you marry someone who exercises regularly and then they get too busy after you marry? Should you take divorce them then? Run away from them, as you say?
As I said originally, people come in all sizes and shapes and no one is less deserving of love than another, unless they are purely evil or something. Articles like this just perpetuate the damaging norms that society places on women by putting women in very confined, prescribed boxes and I would have hoped that we were past that in 2017.
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Wow. It's well noted. Thanks for pointing out. Never intended sounding judgemental in any way, nevertheless, those just merely signal a dead end.
Help your spouse get better; where that is impossible, be careful.
Moreso, exercise as highlighted does not necessarily mean having a gym schedule.
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See this too and give me your take on it?
https://steemit.com/relationshipfriday/@prettyrose/the-woman-s-perspective-the-axiomatic-truth-the-one
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I wouldnt completely disagree with the author. She has a point. But the only thing I wish to point out is this: those above are only pointers to a dead end in a relationship and not all it takes to decide whether or not to RUN. Nevertheless, if those cannot be fixed in your partner, you will definitely meet a dead end and in such a case, run!
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