An EYE for An EYE; REVENGE in relationships!

They say you shouldn't seek revenge. I say, total nonsense!

Revenge is satisfying!
Revenge gives you energy!
But more importantly, it prevents you from being depressed. And I prefer 100 times the fire of revenge than the sadness of depression.

However, I don't approach revenge literally, as "avenge (oneself or another), usually by retaliating in kind or degree".

For me, revenge is more like Frank SInatra's definition: "The best revenge is massive success and happiness."

I won't hurt anyone who did wrong to me. It's a waste of time. I focus on creating more success and happiness for myself and those around me.

That's the best kind of revenge!

So when someone has caused you pains by ditching you in a relationship, there's no point going to fight. Revenge the loss by building your character, correcting your mistakes, and taking actions on your dreams so as to attract the right man/woman who really desires to see the best in you. With your new, better - if not best - personality, the revenge recipient will have the full feel of the revenge and ever regret not having you!

I have personally tested this approach to revenge and it worked for me. My subject, instead of me, is the one who now suffers the depression and ever regrets not having me. Whenever I stumble on him, I see it in his eyes; whenever he speaks, I hear it in his voice; in any piece he pens to me, I read the regret on every character of that piece. Well, obviously, he is not worth the new me and thus can't have me!