.. and trying too find a partner..
Within the last few days, a male friend of mine was in a local gay bar, having what he thought was a friendly chat with a woman. But, when she discerned that he were a homosexual, she declared that she'd been wasting her time and ended the conversation.
I wonder how-and-why a woman came to be hunting for a straight man in a gay bar.
As for me, I've never thought talking to lesbians to be a waste of my time. But, then, I never begin conversations hoping to find sexual partners.
My friend was, unsurprisingly, hurt.