Source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/We_Can_Do_It!
Yes, I’m old fashion, and for the perfectionists, I’m old fashioneeeeed.😂
But you will keep reading this if you have major problems in your relationship because your partner isn’t doing his duties.
This is not only about who pays or who doesn’t, this is a longer story.
First things first.
If you want to spend any time with me, yes you have to pay for dinner. Yes, if we are going to marry I want you to be the leader of the house.
I’m the woman and I follow my man.
Sounds like I’m a slave, right? Why he should do this? Why can I?
Because …I can’t. The natural laws of the Universe are forbidding me from doing it.
And let me tell you that I’ve tried to be the man of the house, and it’s
E-X-H-A-U-S-T-I-N-G.
I can be in the masculine energy all day long, to be in action, to run from thing to thing. I’m not designed by God to do this kind of job. I’m not an alpha men no matter what I’m doing.
I’m designed to empower my man.
And I’m totally fine with that. I’m not less than him, I’m more with him.
I don’t want to prove to anyone anything.
Give to Caesar what belongs to Caesar.
I grow up in a family where my father was taking care of me, my brother, and my mama.
I never saw my father arguing with my mother about who is paying the bills. NEVER! And also the money were for both of them. There was only a pocket.
The man of the house takes care of his family
In my family, there was never a 50/50 type of thing.
Both my parents gave 100 percent in everything they did.
Growing up like this, seeing how my father behaved with my mother, I will not settle for less, even if is 2098. Ok?
I’m a huge believer that each of the partners in a relationship have different kinds of tasks and jobs to do. Inherently we lean towards our natural things.
Nowadays this rule is going under the dust. Women are doing everything and, men are becoming women. Why? Because nature is stupid and we humans know more.
Read the rest of the article here: https://medium.com/the-engage/a-real-man-would-never-let-his-woman-pay-for-anything-d3628149ff8e