Pondering being a "Good Man" or "Good Woman" memes - all are good, but I think it's about are they "trending" as a "way of life" to learn, grow and change? It is important they are dynamic, rather than static as a human being.
Life and living is dynamic. People make mistakes, and there really are no "unforgivable" sins - though sadly - we human beings tend to treat each other as if there are; people make mistakes - what ever word you wish to use for it. I see a lot of heartless, dis-compassionate ruthlessness sometimes.
Building bridges to healing, vs. judgment and dismissal reveals a lot, regardless of beliefs.
Lots of elements regarding finding, choosing and pathing with a "mate" or "partner". But at the end of the day - every day the real question is always:
"Are YOU - growing, changing, learning, and BEING, what you are expecting of another? Are YOU maximizing your strengths and difference in "gender" for the united benefit of the "Relationships" - which is really a third party created by two people who give their strengths, and shore up each other's weaknesses - united in life and living."
A "taste" of P.O.T.U. relationship context. What I see missing in most pathing relationships - is "shared vision" or "shared dreams" or "shared goals" - our culture generally has us "divided" even within our homes in subtle ways. Unity binds and infused a relationship. 1 + 1 - in unity creates infinite possibilities with synergy.
Want someone that cheers you on? Are you cheering others on? Want someone who is giving, and adoring? Are you giving and adoring? Want kindness, cheerfulness, strength, determination, forgiveness, understanding, healthy, etc. - all those and other things. Are you being all those things you want / expect / require of another?
Humans are dynamic - none are perfect - so for me - it is about "being" with "intention" - if someone, or if you - are not all of the things you are looking for - are living with "intention" to be all of those things you wish to have in your life?
MAGICK - happens - when we are not all that we can be but are dynamically growing to achieve our full potential - holding the context of change and growth as a life process is powerful. Your "partner" - will see your greatness - perhaps even before you see it and will cheer you on as you dynamically grow forward.
You're worthy of your partner - if you see their greatness - even before they see it and cheer them on as they dynamically grow forward.
Wisdom comes from life experience - not life perfection. You can measure character not by anyone's past mistakes or performance so much as how they have grown forward from their life experience(s) - or not.
Namaste'