"Some are so use to "Hell on Earth," they work to create it when love arrives."
- David Dancing Tree Nelson
The insight here is people get into a rythem of life expectations that create the patterns and self fulfilling prophecies we observe.
It takes conscious effort to break free and shift into new expectations that surface from our subconscious wellspring of automatic guidence.
Be self aware, discuss this with your relationships. Be mindful of someone's willingness.
If they are not willing...that is your clue that life will never truly get better. Life cycles through their expectations of difficulty, pain and suffering.
Listen to their words...it will surface with many clues.
Listen to their life story...
Observe how they navigate life for a few months, the clues are almost always present in their words.
We all experience this. Awareness opens the door to willingness.
Be willing, start with you.
Trap: seeing in others to mask seeing self :)
Brightest of Blessings,
- David Dancing Tree