It's funny how everybody assumes my generation. Your generation is free already. No one is forced to go back in time and adapt to old fashion 'rules' or traditions. We are completely free to do what we want to do. But women have decided to externalize problems by blaming men while women is the most privileged group in western society. Men have decided to become feminized and weak and women have decided to become promiscuous and arrogant. Men don't like arrogant, promiscuous women. And women don't like weak men. I am not saying that we must force rules on anybody. I'm just saying that we use the freedom wrongly and that is the reason why so many people are lonely, depressed, and unable to commit to long term relationships. If you want to become 40 and be alone and only have casual sexual encounters, then go for it.