Men want some strength and independence, but there’s a risky tipping point.

Fact:

Most guys don’t want an overly strong and independent woman (specifically those who regularly flaunt it and throw it in men’s faces)

Whereas women generally want their men to be independent, men usually don’t want that in a woman as it’s a sign of risk and possible conflict.

They want a responsible woman, they want a woman who is smart and can hold down a conversation, they even want a woman who isn’t a slob and who can maintain their own life and hygiene. Most men even want women to have the same freedoms.

But there’s a tipping point where a woman becomes a risk when they are too “independent”. When they devote their time to work instead of family. When women act like they don’t need a man. When women become assertive and that leads to more conflict.

These relationships also have a higher risk of divorce, which is something any man needs to truly consider before going down that route. Women who are college educated and hold high paying jobs are the largest group of women who file for divorce. The time for family is usually also greatly reduced which carries additional burdens and issues.

I’m not saying women can’t be strong and independent, just saying it can be a silent turnoff (men usually don’t reject women outright, they simply ghost women they don’t take seriously)

Some men actually like these women also, but they are a minority of men.

Most men like feeling needed and appreciated, and a strong and independent woman takes away that perk of being a man. Something that was ingrained into us biologically over thousands of years.

If you’re a strong and independent woman who can’t find a man to propose to you, and you can’t figure out why… it’s most likely because your energy is extremely masculine and it quietly pushes away men, all while the woman can’t understand why because most people won’t admit to the truth like me.

Even the men who are secure with an independent woman often don’t want the added risk. Why take higher statistical risks with your life and family when there are better low risk options?

It’s not about control. This is where most people get this wrong.

It’s about wanting less conflict. It’s about wanting more quality family time. It’s about wanting someone to fulfil our biological dating preferences. It’s about higher divorce rate risks.

This has nothing to do with control. If that’s how you think then you are showing you don’t understand any of this post.

Men want some strength and independence, but there’s a risky tipping point.

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No, it’s that we understand risk and probability and seek to avoid conflict. Take that simp bs to onlyfans.