In our day to day interactions, we meet and come cross lots of people. People with different personalities and mindsets. In certain interactions we immediately are able to resonate with these people, while in some instances we find it rather hard.
It helps to understand that It’s not just on the surface level or conversational aspect that creates such a distance or resonance, rather there’s an energetic aspect to it also. We may have all heard the term as ‘battery chargers’ or ‘battery drainers’, in that when we interact with certain people, we sometimes feel a boost while with others, we get drained.
At the core of it all, we need to understand that we are energetic beings. And that we hold the physical body that we have, as a vehicle. We’re here very much to interact, to learn and to experience. And in that process also there’s an exchange. An exchange of energy we may say.
There are cases also in which we get bounded to certain individuals or personalities – energetically. This is where there can be complexities, or if it’s a harmonious bond, that would be very much pleasant. In the case of what we’d like to look at here are the aspects of those who ‘steal’ your energy, as we may say. And these are very much people that are unable to tune themselves towards their natural energy.
Look at it in a way, it could be said that they’re very much desperate and longing. And the form by which they would attach to your energy, is by control, manipulation, and deceit. These individuals that have been given the name such as narcissists are actually in need of healing.
The way in which they operate, to come out as controlling – stems from aspects of their past or even upbringings in which they may have been neglected, abused or controlled themselves. These are souls that are hurt and are afraid to deal with what’s holding them; and so they perpetrate the same type of harshness that was put on them, towards others around them.
Inadvertently, and perhaps by good chance, there always are good and kind souls who can see this. And perhaps also sense this unknowingly. And they resonate and empathize with these type of individuals. And sometimes come into a karmic bond, or agreement – to come into a relationship with them. Be it as a subordinate, a child or even a spouse. In all cases the kindhearted soul would have ‘volunteered’ through the soul contract, to experience the harshness that’s being vented out by the so called narcissist, as we may say.
Understand still, that if it may be you that’s at the mercy of such individual – it’s only a learning and a skill for you to develop – to eventually learn how to manage your energy and kindness. It’s a blessing to come in such soul contracts, to get to know first hand the kind of sufferings that certain individuals have gone through – that keeps them hard and rough. Again, if it is you that’s in such a position of receiving this form of heaviness – understand that it is for you to show love and learn how to give when it’s most necessary. By giving, we also mean energy wise – as a narcissist is very much an energy vampire.
There’s what’s called an empath, if you’re aware of it. Which essentially means someone who’s empathetic and also intuitive. Take it in a way that the narcissist that has come in your life is very much allowing you to develop your sensitivity, and use it in the right way. Narcissists do also have an attitude of being self centered most of the time, in which they would seem uncaring and only looking after themselves. Yes, in this ocean of energy, and environment that we live in, it’s very much a concern of survival. And that’s how such individuals are geared towards. To strive on their survival and livelihoods – though cold it may be to others as they seem to focus much on careers, positions, titles, influence and status. Know in a way – that for your kindheartedness, there’s an element that’s being shown by such a character, in order for you to also build your social standing in which way you may see fit. And from there to be yourself and assist others.
For if you yourself are always vulnerable – you would only be susceptible to other manipulators and aggressors. In this, it’s very much a process, a necessity and a way of becoming. Where you start to understand yourself, and the ways in which you can best contribute your attention, effort and energy, to then live up to your full potential. Know the magnanimity that you are and that you’re here to help the broken, the lost, the hurt and the disheveled – who’ve been through cruelty for lifetimes, and do not know the way back. It’s a gift to you that the harshness of this world has been shown to you through direct experience, for you to transform it. Stay strong and bring out the best in you.
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