it is fucked up, islamaphobia is not even a real thing. it is another weaponized word. i honestly have no advice for the situation eather or atleast i shouldn't voice my advice. lol
All i can say on it is:
Assimilate or get the fuck out. No one should be forced to change their ways in their own house because they invited a guest in. Kick them out on their ass and tell them "fuck you, you chose to not assimilate". they know damn well what they are doing, it is war even if the people getting attacked don't realize it.
just my opinion on the subject tho. xD