Because of ability or experience, we are often blocked before a certain thing or a certain job. Not only was it impossible to complete, but it also made the soul very frustrated, and quickly wringed out of the water in a depressed mood. We need other people's advice, and we need to listen carefully and peel off the fog before we can suddenly enlighten. It turns out that it can still be like this.
I have always felt that talking with people is a very important skill. Because, the heart can be well placed, whether it is the flash of the soul or the bloom of language, it will be plugged into the wings of leap.
Regardless of work, life or dating, we all use language to express our thoughts, share emotions and learn this skill well, which will greatly help love, interpersonal relationships or the workplace. Being good at listening and being able to learn to absorb nourishment is a prerequisite for delighting oneself and perceiving each other.
All people who find that swear words have one thing in common, that is, "completely ignore other people's feelings."
Before engaging in any conversation, please remember to listen to the other person first, and don't talk nonsense by yourself. Let the soul sink in, don't be the one who scoured the river. People who think more often don't talk much.
Don't let your emotions lead you. Only by mastering your emotions can you calm down those ignorant thoughts and find your way. Let the soul have a place to be able to look around, suddenly enlightenment.
The chattering may be too heavy, so everyone starts to think that "spitting out" is a cool thing. But when you don’t vomit, you can only let simple and rude occupy our intelligent brains.
Sometimes it’s cool to read Tucao jokes, but it’s not at all when it’s your turn. Especially if you are complained by people who are not intimate enough, you may be very angry. Don't let the emotions you carry is contagious and make handling things aggressive. Let the soul sink, who can shut up in time is tantamount to stopping losses beforehand!
Only by understanding other people's information, listening carefully, and awakening the other's wisdom, can you help yourself. This is being good at using the wisdom of others.
You must have a cool head, know how to think about problems in other places, and after listening to other people's speech, you know that different answers will produce different results, and you will tell yourself the answer that satisfies the other person. the first time. Therefore, you should always develop your insight and thinking skills, listen more, think more, and examine various issues from different angles.
Slowly develop a habit, it will take a long time to be able to talk to others well. During the conversation, the problem can be solved perfectly. Letting the soul sink in is a kind of practice. The original ordinary is like sand, but it shines like gold!
Express opinions accurately, and an affirmative opinion will benefit both parties. Just like the brilliance in a piece of music, the original ordinary is sublimated. Let the undulating mind move towards the other side and move forward firmly!