How to maintain a relationship!

in romance •  7 years ago  (edited)

Everyone thinks that falling in love isn't rare and just because a guy says he's in love with you the girl thinks it's true especially in the new millennial generation !! But I'm here to put this correct and explain in the best of my ability what it's like to maintain a relationship and stay happy

Well Iv been in a relationship for almost two years and I know some will say that pretty early but me and my bf go through obstacles that a lot of couples go through but the most important thing is that you communicate and talk to your partner about what's bugging you even if it's about them , it's always good to be able to tell your partner everything and if it's mutual on both ends then it's part of a healthy relationship it's something that will grow stronger!!

Another thing that has to be the best part of a relationship is waking up and thinking "how did I get so lucky "! Yes !! I still seem to wake up and think he's the most perfect guy ever !!! Ladies I'm giving you a tip if a guy calls you nasty names and isn't kind to you or you feel like your self worth is lower then it should be !!! I'm here to tell you that it's not love and he's not a good guy I don't care for the excuse !!! That goes to all the men out there I have the biggest heart for that I don't agree with men being abused by woman , no guy should go through that !!!!

Okay I'm getting off topic , I should start this by saying my story with him Well I was 19 and he was 28 (yes I'm well aware that he was older then me ) so I was just getting off all the drugs I was in a dark road and it was certainly a battle anyway I went to this meeting and I wasn't expecting it would be my thing but I walked in and there he was Sitting there all i thought was he wasn't real it's in my imagination but if he was real he would be gay or taken (my mom got me to grow up with that) so me and him started talking and I was so baffled I was lost for words but when everyone went out for a smoke it was me and him and i just opened up to him and told him things I don't say the first time your meet me , so me and him started talking and when I left I felt as though I wanted to get to know him and learn everything about him .... so that's exactly what I did but as the time went on and the months went by I found myself falling in love with and it's didn't matter with his flaws because they danced with mine , he is and always will be the love of my life !!! This is the short version of the story

Me and him have been through everything that was meant to break us up, but being willing to talk about everything and listen to eachother makes us stronger.

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awasom!!!

awwww so cute

I'm glad that you have fought through your fierce battle with drugs and I hope all is going well now.
I'll be sure to use act on some of the tips you suggested so, fingers crossed, I can be a better partner in the near future

❤️