Why is everyone on the defensive now? Are we a crystal generation?

in rrss •  4 years ago 


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For some time now, I have noticed a change in attitude in people, especially in the new generations and I see with fear the fact that now everything absolutely offends everything. I understand that everyone has their own personality and that we must respect how everyone is, but I feel that now even the slightest bit is an offense, it scares me, we can no longer say anything, the mood has changed, everything is distorted; giving free opinion no longer exists. The world has changed, and I don't know if I like the new society, the society that is only waiting to judge and be aware of what one or the other says, to fall like a school of fish, is crazy; Giving an opinion against the current is usually like a direct shot. Now telling the truth is offensive despite being right even if it is a crude truth, the keyboard warriors attack. I feel that everything is a contradiction in order to win invisible battles on the internet, now the one who manages to lower the deepest morale is the king, the one who wins the battle, the fights that we see on social networks become absurd, everything offends everyone and Nobody agrees.

Why is this generalized in young people?

I think that everyone is reflected in RRSS of how the ideal is, that it is very good, that being realistic is not well seen, sometimes reality is cruel and we must accept it but young people refuse to give the arm to twist, everyone, absolutely everyone wants to be right; then they realize the nonsense they are saying, defending or idealizing themselves in their head, I am not saying that I am not in this group, because I admit I have also had my mistakes, but I tend to be a more thoughtful person. Sometimes it is not good to think that everyone is against you, because it is not like that; And that is a big problem in our society: the ego, everyone believes that they want to affect them in a certain way and it is not like that.


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Social struggles have turned into showy nonsense, just to be accepted into a group and feel like they belong somewhere, and this seems very bad to me, you don't have to have more than three fingers in front to realize that many don't even know because they fight. Without going too far an "inclusive language", inclusive? It seems to me that it is the opposite. The feminist struggle became a struggle against men, when we well know that in the world there are both bad women and men who commit murders, rapes, etc.

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A couple of months ago they told me "This is me, and whoever doesn't like it, bye", I reflect on this, on how someone can have that level of immaturity not to understand that we must change, advance and evolve as human beings, We cannot be inflexible, we cannot engage in something meaningless, we cannot think that everyone is looking for a fight, that everyone is against us, to the point of even forgetting the existence of people you know and who have loved you for many years. , and just like this other examples of how people manage to offend even the slightest bit, even if one says it because they see a potential for improvement, if you are close it may be for their good, but everything is taken now or assumed as "You're wrong, I'm fine, I'm not going to change, I'm like this ... I'm a rebel because the world made me like this", when this is real nonsense.

We must put the ego aside, the world does not revolve around us, we must get off that cloud that has stigmatized us of being perfect people with our defects, because obviously we all have them, but we must try to improve them, not get involved in that we are well being rude, arrogant, stubborn people, just because they have to love us like that, when one does not have to put up with these attitudes. What I'm going to is that finally one ends up being the bad guy, when you only express your opinion, something that they "fight" now is because we can always give their opinion freely, but those who do not think the same are suppressed, it is crazy; I think this has always existed, but now it intensifies more with the massification of information and the scope that we all have to it.

I see a lot of depression in today's youth

This is something that intrigues me too much, because we have always had to deal with thousands of problems, and the truth is the truth is that we are a generation that has gone through a very big economic depression and it is simple to understand that many of us feel inferior to previous generations due to to the reality that we have had to live, but that is overcrowded, it is not just some, we are many, it seems to me that depression is directly related to social networks again, but why? It is putting everything on a pedestal, it is seeing "perfect" lives in social networks, when one thing is photos, videos and reality another, this is something that many of us must internalize, the truth has helped me to understand my reality and that everyone's times are appropriate.

Many young people today feel frustrated, kicked, inferior, and many do not realize the great things they can do, this leads to this attitude of fury, rage that creates these stubborn keyboard warriors, these extremist feminists, these people belonging to Communities like the LGBT who hate their different, something to understand, nobody is perfect, what we see in social networks can be a facade, being in a group does not mean that this group is 100% right about everything, the truth is never absolute.
I think that we must release tensions, we have all had problems, but we must understand that life is now, that we must live it, that we must stop thinking that the planet is against us, we must stop being defensive, we must learn to listen to each other more and really. Giving an opinion is not a crime, being so little different, but we must listen to advice, we must grasp the good things, some people do not have bad intentions, we must stop being glass, put on our pants and continue, we must understand that life It is this, the now, to realize that if a problem has no solution, is it worth killing our heads? And if you have it then simply put all our energy into solving it. We cannot spend our lives self-conscious, is my thinking. What do you think of this? I like to read them, Greetings.

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