Журнал «Психология». Я неудобная, поэтому счастливая!

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Я неудобная, поэтому счастливая!

Что такое быть неудобным?

Когда вас просят о чем-то, а вы хотите сказать нет. И говорите "нет".

Когда в отношениях не мчитесь к человеку по первому зову, если вам сейчас неудобно.

Когда ваши интересы для вас важнее всего.

И только люди, заслужившие доверие, вашу любовь, могут рассчитывать получить вас удобными. Но в рамках разумного.

Меня как-то спросили: "а если я скажу, что мне неприятно такое потребительское отношение с его стороны, он уйдёт?" Уйдёт.

Да, это важно.

Когда вы становитесь неудобными, многие люди из окружения уходят. Это означает, что они с вами только потому что вы были удобные, от вас можно было всегда что-то получить, вас всегда можно было ущемить.

Поэтому я призываю вас: не бойтесь быть неудобными, тогда в вашей жизни появятся люди, которые ценят ваше время, силы и интересы.

Оцените себя по 10-бальной шкале по степени своего "удобства" для людей.

 Автор - Ами Мкртичян (@miniami)

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      ·  7 years ago 

    You got a 1.71% upvote from @postpromoter courtesy of @chance777!

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Удобство 0 , люди в жизни ни то что не появляются, приближаться опасаются)

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Golden words. Completely agree with you. I estimate myself points at 7 sometimes it's very difficult to say no and I pass on other people's problems to myself. Although I know that I do not need this

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Согласен с автором, хуже всего когда вы становитесь не нужны потом, поэтому лучше сразу показать кто вы есть! Спасибо за статью :)

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Может просто - "рассудительный человек", а то "неудобная" - звучит как по стервятскому. И причём тут являться счастью - "когда отказываешь человеку в просьбе". По моему здесь сохраняется нейтралитет.

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Правильно. Надо не давать шансов себя использовать. Надо научиться, когда требуется говорить "Нет"

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Нужно уметь говорить нет,в тех случаях когна оно действительно того требует,иначе Вам сядут на голову и свесят ножки,и будут Вами манипулировать так как им это будет удобно.

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Да, и удобная прежде всего для себя!! Отличная статья!!

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      ·  7 years ago 

    Спасибо за статью.Прочитал и задумался.

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        ·  7 years ago 

      wow !

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          ·  7 years ago 

        This post has received a 3.95 % upvote from @booster thanks to: @chance777.

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              ·  7 years ago 

            Wow..its really amazing. Thank you for posting @chance777

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                ·  7 years ago 

              Very good life story. Follow and upvoted you. Thanks for sharing the post

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                  ·  7 years ago 

                Oooh like that understanding I just understand thanks for your article yng very useful this .. and very helpful for readers who do not understand the problem about this

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                    ·  7 years ago 

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                      ·  7 years ago 

                    you always have the best content

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                        ·  7 years ago 

                      I Dont know what you say..but i have try to do so exactly like in the picture before, but i fail..and fail again..Lol😂😂maybe need more time to practice..xoxoxo

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                          ·  7 years ago 

                        Hy bro nice your post..

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