The hard part is keeping that feeling going after years in the relationship. I still get butterflies in my stomach when my boyfriend texts me and when I come home from work I almost wanna run to the house to see him sooner. I spend a lot of time thinking positive thoughts about my man and if I have a negative thought I work hard on not letting that thought stick in my head or change my behavior. I also work on seeing things from his point of view, cultivating real interest in things he is into that I may not be into, as well as appreciating little things he does that I may not express appreciation if I don't pay attention