Sadhguru said: If someone betrays you, is it wrong or right to punish that person? Or should it be assumed that one day he will be punished for this? Sadhguru: But he must be punished! You give it or someone else, but he must be punished! Enough punishment has been given already, hasn't it? A lot has already happened – yelling, nagging, not talking etc! Everything has been done. So what other punishment do you want to give him? Your problem is that there is no remorse on the other side, it is not so.
Yes. In the beginning when this feeling is intense, you feel satisfaction; But later when you look back, you will feel ashamed of yourself. So don't go on that path of whether he should be punished for this or not. This is an opportunity. Someone is opening up a spiritual dimension to you... literally. Someone is making you realize how delicate all these things are. They may cheat on you, they may run away, they may divorce or they may die, if they die, then you will not think “He cheated on me.” Would you think? No no. But whatever it is, you have been deprived.
The important thing is that you have been deprived of something. How he did this is not the question. Whether through death, or divorce, or betrayal, or whatever you want to call it, you were basically deprived. You may be deprived simply because you are deluded into believing that this is an incomplete life and that it needs the other half from somewhere. No, it's a perfect life. If you have evolved as a whole in life, you will notice that relationships...
Will be of completely different nature. Then it will be more like coming together and sharing, not squeezing. It has to be transformed. If the relationship is to be transformed, you must be transformed. This is a tremendous opportunity that someone has given you. Stop saying, “Someone has deceived me.” Just say, “Someone is pushing me from a state of illusion to the ultimate truth.”
We should thank that person. You should be grateful. Because instead of keeping you confused, instead of keeping you confused in your life or throughout your life, he so quickly made you realize it. Otherwise you would know it only at the time of your death. Yes. when you gonna die
They will say, 'So you will say, I am scared, why don't you come with me?' They will say, 'No.' So that is why it is better to know it now rather than knowing it at the last moment.
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