WHAT MOVES US AWAY FROM SUCCESS

in sc-v •  6 years ago 

FALSE BELIEFS.


On one occasion, my father told me about an experience that had happened in his old job, when he was entrusted with the task of supervising some regiments within your jurisdiction.
Once he arrived at a certain detachment located in a mountainous area, he was able to observe a soldier who was guarding, in a small park or square in front of the central offices. This soldier walked from one end to the other, between
sidewalks Already in the administration offices, after the protocol of greetings, my father asked the military officer in charge about why guards were carried out in the square.


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The response received was a "we do not know Lord"; so the task of investigating, in the minutes and other documents, the reason why the order of permanent surveillance had been given.
After almost a week of searching for paper by paper, book by book, the justification was found.
It turned out that 20 years ago, a temporary guard was ordered, because they had painted the pews of the square and wanted to take care that no person sat in them, so as not to get stained with painting…
This "provisional" order was transformed into a "tradition". Two decades went by, for someone to question why a soldier should stand guard from end to end in a square, without a profitable sense.

In this same way, many of the social beliefs that - supposedly - are pillars or columns where cultures are held, are false paradigms that have undermined the self-esteem of nations, peoples, families and individuals.
The lack of fullness in the life of the "modern" man, lies in the false beliefs that dwell in the social mind and that do not even it occurs to us to question them, or even to scrutinize them. These false beliefs are like deformed lenses with which we see things. Myopic eyes that are mentally programmed to not see beyond the lies or to perceive "what it looks like", but IT IS NOT.

And this means there are no changes; that the transformations do not happen, because we have reached a point where there is no minimum curiosity to see beyond and find the beautiful truths that are not hidden; but they bloom and show up under our noses.
It is enough to observe people walking and seeing their faces, to realize that there is no fullness, no joy, in most of the world where we live The very fact of observing shows us the reflection of tension, pressure, fear, anger, frustration, selfishness and the absence of sensitivity and service.Some people feel so unhappy, that they have come to believe that "life is like that", that "he wants heavenly that it costs him"; what "Better the known bad than the good to know"; that "I resign, I resign but I come"; that "worse is nothing"; that "love hurts" and so many false beliefs and, therefore, succumb to mediocre, average and decadent habits.

We are in a consumer world, in which "ideals of fulfillment" that are usually utopian, built with promises and illusory expectations, without a handle, like bottomless barrels, were "bought".
You are aware that this current world encourages us to acquire goods; to become owners of golden egg hens; or that a "miracle" gives us the "gift of Midas", so that everything we touch becomes precious gold.
But the reality is that many times we are bored, without a sense of life, without knowing where to go, without knowing what to do, to the point of not wanting to rise the next day, this being a wonderful gift from God.
One of the reasons why we do not achieve success is because we only focus on what we do NOT have; instead of enhancing our talents; and we spend it doing the same thing that we have always been doing, without modifying absolutely nothing of our behaviors (which are nothing more than the materialization of our beliefs) in each step of growth. When a person breaks the paradigms that tie him to an average life, he becomes a leader; simply because he wants to transmit to others what he has learned and teach new ways; that is, offer an inheritance, a legacy.
I believe that each one of us can change the world, performing transcendent acts that leave traces in the hearts of humanity.
I am convinced that many people want to do something to improve this world. However, what is important to be clear as water, is that happiness and success are lived day by day and are not in the future. Thinking that we will obtain the fullness only when the world changes, would be foolishness.

So:
When do we know that we are facing lies that prevent us from success?
Well, when we think that these beliefs are "true" and we do not exercise will to dig up and bring the truth to light.
We have stopped asking questions. We only look for answers. This ability to formulate permanent questions and make constant restatements is the basis that allows us to advance to higher levels.

False beliefs require detachment. When a space is empty, we must be aware of filling it with new mental guidelines or "new statements", before other lies occupy that place.
I wonder:
Could it be that our beautiful dreams are impossible to materialize?
Could it be that success and triumph in our lives are utopian?
Could it be that everything is a mystery that has not been revealed to us; or that has been revealed to very few privileged?

not, I do not believe it at all.



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In every endeavor, small or large, easy or difficult, there are obstacles.

The obstacles are an important part of our daily life and allow us to improve day by day, as well as for the pigeons, the only obstacle that prevents them from flying faster and more freely, is the air ... without it, they would plummet, as the resistance that offers the air on its wings is what allows them to take flight.

"After the storm comes the calm." Life is full of good and bad experiences, although the latter, paradoxical as it may be, are the ones that leave the most impression on our conscience.

1.- The world changes! Be aware that everything is in motion, nothing is static.

2.-How do you see it? An obstacle is an opportunity to change or modify what we are doing, so that things go better.

3.-It's not bad. Trust that this obstacle invites us to move and it will be for our good

4.- Do not change your mind! Rethink the goals in small objectives to achieve them little by little or to modify according to the obstacles that are presented to us, without losing sight of our goal.

An obstacle is something that temporarily prevents us from realizing an objective or reaching a goal at that moment. On many occasions this obstacle paralyzes us, makes us frustrated and we do not want to continue with our project. However, this will depend on our personality, life experiences, tolerance to frustration and creativity.

When you are depressed you lose the ability to appreciate and enjoy the wonders of life. You lose the opportunity to attract what you want and enjoy the little joys of everyday life.
If you feel depressed because you have not been able to get something, you should look for what you need somewhere else. You have been looking in the wrong place. Apply it in all areas of your life, including with your partner and work. Everything you need is at your fingertips, you just need to know where to look. Do not get depressed if things do not come out of the way you expected; sticking to a certain form will prevent you from achieving the same result, but through another path.

You can not avoid frustration and sadness, but you can handle them. They are feelings that all human beings have, but we should not allow them to dominate us, on the contrary they should be the springboard to be creative, flexible and see the obstacle as an opportunity to make a change.

When you blame other people for your unhappiness, you forbid yourself from taking responsibility for the actions you have taken.
Therefore, you are unable to create the changes you want to achieve in your life, since you wait for the other to resolve your situation.
Only you are responsible for your actions and the consequences that could bring your life, therefore you are the only one able to solve.
Trust yourself and that you are on the right path to achieve personal success, in this way you will stop blaming others.

The fear of criticism is a great impediment that sometimes we impose, we think that if we continue with our way, people will criticize us or they will make fun of us. When really, the others are so busy with each other, that they do not even have time to criticize. In addition, 95% of the time, what people give us is not ridicule but their support, when it comes to trying to achieve success.

One of the main obstacles that prevent you from achieving success is the fact that you are predisposed to fail. Although, the predisposition is not more than a mental state, possibly based on prejudices, it alters your way of thinking and therefore your behavior, reaction and decision making regarding what you want to achieve.

The ideal is that you are predisposed to succeed, that from the beginning you have as a motto, achieve what you set out to achieve your dreams, no matter what happens, or what others do.

If you want to achieve personal success, you must start now. Not later, not tomorrow, right now! If you feel unable to start, then you will not give your body another option and you will postpone the action.

If you do this you will be surrendering or lowering your guard against the challenges of life. When you see that you are able to overcome the previous obstacles, you will begin to notice that the rest of the way becomes much friendlier. The solution is not to think so much and do it right now. Do not worry, feeling fear is normal when we embark on a new path, you just have to learn to control it.

False beliefs require detachment. When a space is empty, we must be aware of filling it with new mental guidelines or "new statements", before other lies occupy that place.

🖕I’m taking that one straight to the bank!

Thanks for such powerful exposition @darlenys01

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We have to believe right to be able to succeed in life. False believe cannot take a man forward, Great post @Darlenys01