Tender awakening

Dear ladies,

This is no sub, but a rant, deliberately written to create a form of awakening to some of your myopic mindset. How you interprete this message is entirely your problem. I'm only responsible for the things I write from real life occurrences happening around me.

1. It vexes me so badly when I hear the ignorant ones among you say, "I can't date or marry a broke|poor man." Please who did you say you are again? Who asked you? How much do you have?
   Shingbain* no gum you; you struggle to feed; yet you have high standards. You dont even have a job or a vocation, yet you envisage a Mr. Rich, who would come cater to all your financial needs and alleviate your family from poverty, while all you intend giving in return is - ?????! You don't even know that relationship|marriage is a two-way street.

2. You think you are "beauty" with unlimited rights to the services of your "beast" of burden? Where you part of how he made money? No! But you want it to be spent on you. You don't have conscience, for planning to reap where you haven't sown.
   Don't expect men to pay your bills and buy you things that even your fathers cannot afford for you. Its not your right. You hear me? There's pride in being independent. Work for your own gaddem* cash and afford your own accessories yourself; then anything he does for you is jara*. Men can, and will lavish on you and still secretly regard you as a liability.

3. Stop looking for financial stability in marriages|relationships when you are broke AF. What are you bringing to the table? Stop allowing men be the sole financier of your weddings - ensure that it's a collective venture, so he won't wake up one day to regard you as an object, bought and paid for, by him. Yes! Some men are dense enough to think so, regardless of exposure. Some of you are the reasons why some of these money-miss-road narcissistic misogynists treat you like trash. If in this century you still think your men owe you material things because he's with you - walahi* you need your brains per-boiled and disinfected in a cauldron of hypo.