Think for Your Self

in selfhelp •  7 years ago 

This article is dedicated to all of you who just graduated from the Youth Entrepreneurship Program.

Most of the time, we want to be blend in, be one of a crowd, be acknowledged. We all want to belong. Some of us will even say "I will do whatever you want me to be, I will do whatever you want me to do" just because we want to please the other person, especially the people we care about - our parents, relatives and trusted friends.

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Be it blunt or mean, just tell yourself that "What other people say or think about me is non of my business". Be assertive, be clear with your own opinion, stand firm with it and be grounded with your own sense of identity. We do not have to fake something out to make another person happy.

What is the point when you do everything to please another one and at the end you at stressed and unhappy?

Think for yourself. What do you want to be? It is your life, why let another person to decide and take control?

Someone may offer you something good, if this is not something that you want in your life for yourself, be bold and dare to say "NO". Being a "YES" person all the time may not serve you any good.

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