As we all know, Men are more sexually active than women, or at least more visibly active. But what do you really know about what men think? As a man myself, I am here to tell you what we really think, what we secretly crave, what are the things we try to hide from women?
Here are the 6 Sex Secrets and Lies All Men Keep.
- We Lie About The Number of Women We Had Slept With
I'm sure most, if not all men do this. Some exaggerate the number of women they tell their girlfriends that they have slept with. This happens when the guy has a bit of a problem in confidence. Since the more women you seem to have slept with, the more experience and confidence you have. The other side of this lie is the "Low baller" lie, Some men tend to lie and low-ball their number simply because of the fact that they do not want to be passed of by a woman as a 'player' and one who does not commit.
- We CRAVE To Be Seduced
We do! And If I have to be the first to admit it to make a difference, then so be it! Survey says that among the things that turn on guys, watching or having the woman make the first move tops our lust list and I could not agree more. Men's lust dream is to have his woman jump him once in a while. One friend even said to me, "I haven't found a girlfriend that has initiated sex nearly half as much as I do". Which is true since most women think that this gesture is not lady-like, but if you do it right and you only do it with your man, you're gonna make your man a very happy guy.
- Men Compare.
I have to say, as a man I am a bit ashamed of this one. But reality is men compare their current girlfriend to their ex's, everything is measured up from the looks, your bedroom abilities, the way you hang around with our friends is compared. But it is not such a bad thing,Do not be intimidated by this, this usually happens at the very early stages of a relationship, around 2 - 3 months in the relationship. I, personally did this myself with a couple of my girlfriends, but now I am happily engaged, You want to know how I knew she was the right one? No body else could compare to the way she is to me. So in a way, comparison is good. At times, at least.
- We Are Wondering If You Are Having a Good Time
Half the time when we are doing the deed, part of what comes to our minds is the thought of "Is she enjoying this?". Believe it or not, some men are not so selfish when it comes to sex, some actually care whether you climax or not. Our sexual pleasure comes partly from seeing our partners have a good time during sex. If we think you are faking it, It will distract us and make sex less exciting. A quick tip for the ladies out there, Do not try to 'act-it-out', because that never works. Do not try anything that will not come natural to you, just let your body move you and enjoy the moment. Let out a few moans do not be afraid to get lost in the moment and let your man know you are having a good time.
- We Are Too Shy To Ask You To Try Kinky Stuff
Believe it or not, we are. It is very common for us men to be thinking about something out of the ordinary, specially with our partners. But we are most often too shy to ask for it. Why? Because we do not want to be perceived as perverts! That fear is what's been keeping most men from asking their girlfriends/wives to try new things and explore each other. I am sure that your guy have two or more kinky things he wants to try with you, like role-playing etc. but we could never ask you, most of all out of respect. We feel like if we ask you, you would be a little horrified of the matter. There is also that fear of rejection, like if you reject one thing we suggested, what then?
The bottom line here is learn to communicate with your man, most often we respect you too much or we are too shy to tell you what we really think. And for the guys out there, don't be afraid to tell your lady what you think or what you want, just be sure to return the favor and ask her what she wants and listen to her. Communication is a very important aspect in a successful relationship and should never be taken for granted. With that I leave you with the biggest lie men say to their women. Lie number six!
- "We Will Just Cuddle"
We have all heard or said that line, This is the absolute biggest lie a guy could ever tell his woman! I personally admit it and I know most men who will read this will admit to it too. I mean, go back to your memories, do you ever recall this really happening? I mean, Come on! I personally blame this one on the passion a guy shares with his woman during their alone time, you can never 'just cuddle' with all that intense passion between you two! It is a beautiful thing when you look at it that way.
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