Let’s talk about sex: do you share your fantasies with your partner

in sex •  6 years ago 

I fantasize about sex. I think probably several times a day. I can fantasize flashes images, relive moments I had. If I have time I can fantasize whole stories, much better than any female oriented porn movie ( yes they exist). 


But it I don’t always dare to share my fantasies with my partner. I find telling my fantasies more difficult than actually having sex. It is difficult, because he hardly fantasizes,and I fantasize a lot. Like really a lot.  I tried to spark it off several times by telling him a story over WhatsApp, its horny, but not reciprocated. I don’t blame him, we can’t be everything to our partners. 

We obviously have a mismatch here.  Its quite a pity, because fantasizing together is so intimite and gives another level in the sexual relationships 


do you fantasize? and do you share it? 


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I think it depends on your partner. I know that i tend to fantasize and imagine things in my head, but she doesnt.

I understand how frustrating it can be to not have your partner involved or willing to "play".

Wish you the best!!! :)

I do, a lot

Sometimes. Other times, I tell it to my other friends. (just chats, nothing more)

I think I have never shared any fantasies with girlfriends. That is quite open if you.....

Er....

I'm not sure of what you but just to be clear, I tell it to female friends

I don't share fantasies with my partner, I used to have a phone fantasy partner, but I lost the phone and lost the phone partner, we had never met each other, we just shared our fantasies.

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I understand that completely....., but wonder if I should consider it cheating or not?

You need to decide it with your partner, it depends of the couples preferences. You can't really say for example- watching a porno is a cheating or not.

You should tell him about Your fantasies... Are they really so weird? Or pervert? :P

I benchmarked it in comparison to all other fantasies and I can say that I fall in the average with a 90% interval.

And what about that 10%? ;> Sorry, if I am too nosy haha:)

that 10% is just statistics.

I see. Every1 has own world, and own untold fantasies.