How not sexy people find their wife/husband?

in sex •  7 years ago 
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Sexy is always in the eyes of the beholder, much like beauty.

And being sexy is not always about looks - it's the way you carry yourself, your confidence, your attitude, down to your skills, strengths, passion and social contributions.

If looks are the only things people look at, I can assure you, there will be lots of singles in the world. As a matter of fact, sometimes the "Sexier" you look, the more single you can become.

There are ways to improve your charisma, to become more attractive to the other gender. If you an average looking, introvert like me, you can check out this post.

https://steemit.com/psychology/@maverickfoo/53-dating-tips-for-an-introverted-dude

Hope it helps.

p.s. Would you like a partner that just accepts you for your looks? You probably want more than that, right? The key is to know what you really want in a relationship, because looks are external, and they will fade. Character and attitude, they are internal - those stay with you for way, way long.

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I agree that if looks where the only thing people looked at there would be a lot of singles, no one would stay together for more than a week I'd say

Looks, however, are simply also a part of mutual attraction. Saying that looks don't matter is as hypocrite as saying that looks is the only thing that matters in my opinion