Sex is like we came out of women reproductive organ but still want to go there but in different way. It's like we are in a hurry and don't want to live in this chaotic world.
Yes some people chose not to go there because they are gay or doesn't fit in the gender stereotypes . I am not gay and it's not promotion of this lifestyle , I am not in favor or against it , my point is we are energy forms and if we don't channel or use our energy resources to places where they are relevant then it can cause serious issues .
If nothing will come out of you what attraction is then . We are not attracted towards women or men our attraction is towards that liquid which comes out of Men and Women reproductive organs .
My point is excess of anything can cause problems , like if we eat more than we have to then it can cause problems in our stomach and same with other cases also . We have to understand that energy is everything and we have to save it . If we are consuming our energy levels in places which are not relevant or in excess amount than we have to face consequences .
To control ourselves or to channel our energy levels Yoga and breathing exercises can help .