Blaze's Story/Weekend Update

Hello again, all you swingers and swingettes!

My name is Wendy, my husband is Blaze, and we are real life swingers bringing our story to you!

Last time, I told you about how I got into "the lifestyle" as we call it. Today I want to tell you about Blaze. I also want to tell you a little about last weekend (wink!).

Blaze's story is quite a bit different than mine. His story started waaaaayyyyy back when he was working in strip clubs as a bouncer, DJ, manager, and eventually owner.

Blaze was dating one of the dancers - we'll call her Candy. He fell for Candy. Hard. But Candy had a secret fiance who was unable to be in the picture for a term of 6 to 10 years, if you get my drift. (If you don't, he was in prison.) The fiance was released, and Candy left to be with him. Several weeks later, she showed up and told Blaze that she felt terrible for betraying him. She promised Blaze that she would make it up to him. She bragged up his dick to the other strippers in every club in town. For the next 3 years, he had company every night.

Eventually he ended up in a relationship with one of these strippers, "Amy". Amy introduced him to swinging. At that point, this only involved other females. He has a particularly good story about the day Amy invited 3 of her friends over. There was a party on the pool table that he is still smiling about :)

After Amy came "Sunny". By this time, he owned his own club. It was Sunny who really got the swinging started. Sunny liked other girls, but she also liked strange dick, and Blaze finally became a full-fledged swinger.

This might be a good time to define the word "swinger". For the most part, it refers to couples - who are usually, but not always married - who seek out other couples for the purpose of recreational sex. Most couples are "full swap" - my hubby screws your wife and vice versa. There are, however, a few couples who, rather than swapping partners, enjoy having sex with their own partner side-by-side with another couple. Many of those couples eventually progress to full swap, but not always. These couples are referred to as "soft swap" swingers.

Blaze spent a few years with Sunny. They attended many. many parties and clubs together and he has more stories than any other person I know. After Sunny, there was - believe it or not - a "Sunny 2". And after Sunny 2, there was WENDY! The funny thing was that we didn't know that we both had swing relationships in the past! For the first year and a half or so, we didn't swing at all. We have made up for it since then ...

Which brings me to last weekend.

A and T came to visit us! We had been chatting and texting for some time, and we finally made it happen! Sometimes it can be a challenge to find a date and meeting place that works for both couples. We like to get down to play time right away when we meet a couple. We've already spent quite a bit of time with texts and phone calls. By the time it is time to actually meet, we're ready to go!

So, as is very common, we met at a local hotel. This time it was one room with 2 beds, although we have no issue with getting separate rooms. In fact, sometimes separate rooms is better. Some people feel like they can relax, have more fun, make noises, etc more easily if they aren't thinking about how their partner might react to seeing it. FYI ... I am NOT one of those people! When I am having sex, I am "in the zone" and focused on what is happening in my bed ... not what Blaze is doing.

"A" turned out to be so good at oral that he placed in the top 3 on my best pussy-eaters list! Woohoo! That alone was worth it! I love it when a man knows how to eat pussy. (BTW, if you think you need some pointers on the fine art of cunnilingus, search xhamster for a Nina Hartley video on how to eat pussy. It's very informative!) These folks were ready ... they brought toys and everything. We're talking vibrating cock rings, magic bullets, fancy lube ... they were set for bear. "T" was a squirter - Blaze got quite a shower when he made her cum. As I mentioned, I don't necessarily watch Blaze a lot when we swing. As long as he is getting some, that is all I care about. I know he did her from behind, but past that ... what I really know is that I got bent in half, screwed, vibrated, and served up dinner "at the Y" and it was great fun!

Until next time,stay calm and swing on!