Hugues, Jérémie and Jonathan share their best sexual experiences without taboos. Sexologist Michel Lombard deciphers these testimonies for us.
My best sexual experience: a romantic kiss, several months of waiting before taking action…
Jonathan, consultant, 39 years old.
I started a relationship with a friend from high school whom I have known for almost 20 years. I kissed her, without premeditation, at the end of an evening certainly a little too drunk and after which she had to sleep with me. We did not sleep together that night, however. I immediately felt an unusual pleasure for me just to kiss him . It was something very strong, which surprised me somewhat.
Following this slip we resisted long enough before taking action, both aware that this situation was a little confusing. The memory that left me this evening, the softness of her skin which gave her a sensuality that I had never suspected until then, very quickly got the better of my fears of damaging our relationship of friendship. This period lasted several months during which we spent entire evenings chatting and cuddling. Even if they were imbued with a lot of sensuality and complicity, our evenings remained relatively wise. But each time, I found myself liking that much, as the desire burned my stomach. However, I understood his choice.
Then, during one of our evenings, I saw in his eyes that we had reached the point of no return. It was an unforgettable moment for me, no doubt exacerbated by this accumulation of desire and by the obvious certainty that this night was going to be magical. We made love until the early hours of the morning, with the impression that our bodies were made for each other, kept awake by the intensity of our looks when we were enjoying each other's pleasure. I loved it. It was a mixture of sensuality, complicity and at the same time shared sexual appetite, without taboo and never satisfied.
Since then we have been living an incredible love story. I want her more and more and the pleasure she gives me is always as strong. I love everything until this sweet tiredness of the next day, at work, when we are not sleeping all night ... my best of the moment remains the best only until the following night. And I hope it doesn't stop.
Michel Lombard's opinion: "Waiting made sex more beautiful, more intense".
It's kind of the perfect story. Built on a path traced in friendship and that a romantic kiss transformed into a romantic relationship. The wait gave strength to their physical encounter and the projection made the sexuality more beautiful, more intense. This expectation is proof that feelings are created in parallel. Neither partner needs to rush things because subconsciously they know they have time. The two friends took the time to meet, to recognize each other emotionally and physically. They have fueled their story of tenderness and sensuality, which are two essential drivers of fulfilling sexualityand rich. They did everything to correlate their bodies and their minds. They became a compatible couple. They put all the elements so that their desires are true and last in length. This story is all the more beautiful as it is the best move that lasts! And this is the most important.
My best sexual experience: she is hyper liberated and experienced
Hugues, computer scientist, 45 years old.
25 years later I haven't forgotten anything about this moment. This evening remains my best sexual experience. My best shot.
One Saturday evening in Paris, during a classic evening where I had left to flirt with friends, I found myself chatting with a pretty girl my age. She seemed rather seduced and available. Despite everything, I still fear the flop. The evening started off rather pleasantly and finally I took her by motorbike to my parents' apartment. I feel more confident.
As soon as we arrive, we exchange a few words and the kisses follow one another, the fever goes up. My partner takes matters into her own hands, and seems completely free and freed from her body. At this age, I am downright confused, I have not had so many sexual experiences either. I let myself go, and find myself having sex like I have never had. Without taboo, without fear. We made love all night, in all positions ... without thinking, spontaneously, with a disconcerting naturalness. I am 45 years old today, and it will remain my best sexual experience. And I never forgot it. I dropped it off at her place on a goodbye kiss. She told me that she was fantasizing about meeting like this and letting chance meet again.
The opinion of sexologist Michel Lombard: "the disorder of the woman who takes her desire in hand"
Hugues was taken by surprise. At 20, he came across a more experienced woman, more liberated than him. This situation created a sexual shock for this man who was starting his sex life. He had to live with the cliché of the shy, slightly cranky woman… It is always very disturbing for men to see women take their desires in hand.
What is quite strange is that it is his strongest memory. Because, if we have to accept that we do not relive the emotions of our 20 years, we still have the strength and the resources to experience such intense disturbances and upheavals in the course of our adult life.
Why isn't Hugues looking to see this person again? Why in the majority of cases do witnesses make their stories incompatible? Why are they comforting themselves in the moment and not trying to create a continuation of their story? Why be satisfied with a passing sexuality?
My best sexual experience: a 100% sexual experience
Jérémie, communications manager. 41 years old
One evening, when I got home late from work, it was snowing. I found myself face to face with a young woman of 25, barely dressed in a t-shirt, shivering with cold. She was pretty, but that evening I really wanted to play the serving knight, I brought it home with all due honor. And, I still don't know why I didn't call the fire department! She looked completely lost and was leaving the hospital. I must have been touched, surprised by this somewhat surreal situation!
So much so that once warmed up, the girl threw herself on me and I refused her invitation. I was even pretty on guard since she seemed to have a fairly tumultuous and chaotic life. But she took matters into her own handsand finally stayed 2 days locked in my house, finally in my bed exactly. Two intense days.
Intense, because his sexuality offered itself in total resonance with mine. Like, I knew I would never see her again, I even forgot her first name. I had a 100% animal and sexual experience.
I took pleasure without asking myself questions, without any consideration on what she could think. But this experience was unique. Because only sexual.
I don't know if it was the fact that she had completely mastered and controlled the situation, that she was extremely greedy, bulimic limit of sex or the situation itself that fueled my desire? This experience, this bubble of 48 hours does not prevent me, fortunately, from having disturbing experiences with people with whom I am in love and with whom I have feelings.
The opinion of sexologist Michel Lombard: "a hyper phantasmagorical situation "
Jérémie knows by meeting this person that he can never be his partner. He knows that he cannot fall in love with this person. He falls into a sexual trap. It is a hyper phantasmagorical situation, where desires and taboos no longer exist. In addition, this woman herself seems completely liberated, Jérémie is living a unique moment which will probably never happen again. It's a bit like a man who projects himself into a pornographic film . All the elements are brought together so that sexuality is totally exacerbated.
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