I don’t own a clitoris and I don’t own a g-spot. But I posit that I “hit” them orgasmically using my mind.
The thing is, we all hold the genetic code for this anatomy. We therefore likely possess the neural mappings “connected” to the activation of these nerves. Taking estrogen and suppressing my testosterone probably strengthens these neural pathways.
So take your brain and focus your next orgasm where you want it.